How to be if the guy with whom you several years together, still did not make proposal? Psychologists advise most objectively to look narrowly at his behavior in relation to you.
Instruction
1. Perhaps, recently you began to notice that you began to make large joint purchases or to plan long travel? It means that your man begins thorough preparation for that in a consequence to make up the mind to more serious step. In this situation do not go too far, continually asking it about what color wall-paper will be in your general hall, etc. Try not to force events and if you show wisdom, the proposal will not keep itself waiting.
2. Be observant. How it reacts when you are invited to wedding celebrations by mutual friends? How does treat a civil marriage? Whether willingly it remains with small children when it is asked about it by close people? If he perceives others wedding no more than another party, waves away from any talk about cohabitation and continually looks at the watch when he potters with the nephew, so his plans are not thoughts of marriage. And if at a wedding of the best friend he most loudly shouts "Bitterly!" and at the same time presses you to itself more strong, quite often guesses whom your kid will resemble, very soon you will go with him to the altar.
3. Cannot you still define with full confidence whether he wants to connect with you life in the nearest future? Then ask it about it directly. The formulation of a question can be such: "How you think, men really are afraid of responsibility in marriage? Why?" Be attentive: if the guy openly starts talking about egoism, desire to remain free and it does not want marriage not to care for the problems connected with keeping of family, so.