Each person, marrying, hopes that he is forever. Durability of the union of the man and woman is caused by as far as they are happy with each other. Quite often after several years of joint life the passion and romanticism give way to related feelings which are called still a habit. How to spouses to kindle a spark in the relations again?
It is required to you
- - conditioning agents for;
- - romantic trip.
Instruction
1. Carefully you watch the appearance. The woman needs to be engaged in the figure, not to be lazy to style hair and to do a make-up even if it is not going to leave the house. As home clothing it is necessary to choose something convenient, but attractive: not a shapeless dressing gown, and, for example, the knitted dress emphasizing a figure. The man should pay attention to look always accurate, be shaved, brushed, it is good to smell.
2. If you have children, most likely, not only they, but also you got used to see in each other parents. Do not call the spouse "mother" or "father". Replace such addresses gentle and playful: "kid", "hare", "cat" …
3. If children already rather adult to leave them on care of grandmothers and grandfathers, go together to a romantic trip. Very much bring together and aggravate feelings of an adventure through which people pass together. Therefore hikes, alloyage down the river, ascension to mountains and other occupations which are connected with overcoming dangers as well as possible will approach.
4. Establish balance between time which you find for work and a hobby, and time which you spend with family. The overweight in one or other party negatively affects the relations. Work and a hobby is your reserve to remain the interesting personality. Psychologists noticed long ago that such private sphere of activity well cements the matrimonial relations. However if, too being fond, you do not give the rest of attention to the spouse, it is possible that between you there will be a dissociation.
5. Do to the spouse pleasant surprises, try to be in an amicable way the unpredictable person. You pay sincere compliments. Think up how to diversify usual routine affairs.
6. Very well joint leisure affects the relations, and it is unimportant, together you or with children. Driving on skis, skates, rollers and just walks in the park will revive emotional bond.
7. An important part of the relations of spouses is intimate life. Find and here something brand new, surprise the darling.
8. At last, in family there should not be a place to foul language, disrespect and egoism. If you already at the beginning of family life deliver a barrier to these destructive phenomena, and a decade later you will not sink the appeal in the spouse's estimation.