Over time romantic and mad acts are forced out by life, and magnificent sex - a conjugal duty without emotions and interest. There is an accustoming. Feelings slowly die away, and so there is a wish to kindle a former flame of passion.
Instruction
1. Ease was gone in communication, the relations became tense. If you ceased to be dissolved in each other, but somewhere at heart realize that it is that person with whom you want to carry out for the rest of the life, then try to act as follows to revive the dying-away feelings. Try to release for each other a little space that everyone could be engaged in what he wants: cross stitching, salsa, kiteboarding, aircraft modeling. You will have new subjects for discussions, new impressions and emotions. Of course, it is good when for you there is only your partner, but such idyll in the relations not for long lasts. Anyway, being all the time next to each other, you will read the person as you the open book, will be down on to all habits and shortcomings of the person. He will become for you predictable and uninteresting so the personal space is one of conditions for refreshing of your feelings.
2. Kind of you long neither met or nor lived together, it is necessary to win each other again and again. Remember how you got acquainted as you looked after one after another, ran on an appointment. Make a little silly, mad or even children's acts. Winter - play snowballs, you build a snowman, ride the sledge about hills, summer - run barefoot under a pouring rain, roller-skate, bicycles, fall - collect leaves for a herbarium, you sit in cozy cafe, telling each other amusing stories, spring - sing serenades under a window, you give flowers, write romantic notes each other. Irrespective of season, try to open something new in your relations and to protect that old that also heart warms soul. Be not tired to surprise and please each other.
3. In life there is anything: failures and problems at work, a seasonal depression, internal crisis. You come back home in bad mood, but it is not necessary to splash out the negative on the elect. Scandals and hysterics never promoted improvement of relationship. Be limited only to the story about the feeling sick, explain that now it is hard for you that you need the help, and you will be helped by all means, will surround with care and love. But do not abuse the weakness. Try to abstract near him / her from external problems. You have to be the cheerful person because it is very difficult to stand the nagging crybabies, without showing at the same time negative emotions.
4. Try to smile and laugh more. The smile is sign of the healthy relations too. How it is possible not to love the cheerful person? The dimples on cheeks sparkling a devilish spark eyes, the acquaintance to pain a mimicry. You give each other joy and smiles.
5. Short-term separate accommodation or short separation from darling will be an extreme. At this moment you will understand as far as he is dear to you what place he in your life takes and as strongly you love it. But sometimes separation only aggravates the relations, washing away the images which developed in consciousness, characterizing your relations. The main council in this case - there has to be in everything a measure. Do not overdo a pause, if to become thoughtful, then there are no irreplaceable people. Nature abhors a vacuum. It is necessary to work intelligently and care.
6. The relations are as golden jewel which becomes covered with patina. Your purpose is to clean them from a household raid that they were poured and sparkled new emotions and feelings.