Probably, on light there is no person who was not influenced feeling of jealousy. Even if you were never jealous anybody, means - were jealous you. And to tell the truth, sometimes we even try to force to be jealous the soulmate, but when this feeling develops into paranoia, are ready to run at top speed.
Instruction
1. Why there is such uncontrollable feeling? As psychologists go on, the diffidence is the main reason for jealousy. And what it is necessary to do, you ask to find such confidence? First of all, of course, to fall in love with itself. If you are able to find harmony with yourself, then you will not even think of a possibility of treachery, best of all and it is necessary to love you simply. The reasons of jealousy can be also in other problems. For example, the former partner could offend you, and now it is heavy to you to trust people, or perhaps any children's offenses do not allow you to reveal now, or you have a low self-assessment. Anyway try to understand yourself that why and as.
2. There are two options of fight against jealousy: if you are jealous and if your partner is jealous. The second case is especially unpleasant. The imagination of jealous men is very developed. And in the thoughts they can paint to themselves such pictures that you even also will not be able to present to yourself. And will accuse later you, nearly of treason with a column. The disease, or perhaps and reaction to your stories about antecedents, about your adventures on the love front can do it. Therefore think before to tell something about being to the present elect.
3. Do not tell the jealous man about sexual feats of the friends and girlfriends at all. He can write down also you in ranks of traitors as you communicate with such people. And the saying says – show me who your friend, and I will tell who you are.
4. If the situation leaves from under control, do not hesitate to ask for the help the psychologist. The doctor precisely will help to calm the jealous man, having given the chance to him to be uttered, and it is extremely necessary in this situation.
5. One more important remark - at stability in the relations the jealous men calm down. Let to it to feel uniform in the whole world, you spend with it much time.
6. Do not show it the independence in the material and moral plan.
7. If, it is all about you, stop to perceive darling as personal property. The personal space is necessary for all and if you do not know where he, it does not mean yet that he at other woman. Jealousy – terrible feeling. And which of you two it would not torment – talk. Discuss this problem with the partner. Only in a conversation it is possible to reach compromise.