The modern demographic situation assumes that men are able to afford to elect the lady. But there are also such situations when the girl who already has a young man attracted and to choose as her. And you like her and only she! What to do? For a start sit down and quietly think, without excess emotions whether it is necessary to you so to take some actions which will demand a considerable investment of forces and time. If affirmative answer, we start active actions.
Instruction
1. It is necessary to approach the girl, and at this stage it means not sexual relations. It is more detailed to find out the sphere of its interests, to walk round the same places where it goes. Having learned that she loves, to begin to be interested in it to have an opportunity to support with the young lady communication on the subjects loved by it.
2. To become her friend to whom she can talk about everything – to girls important that they were taken seriously.
3. To learn to listen more, to say less. To girls it is important that listened to them, understood and supported.
4. To be for it always available at any time to come to the rescue if that is required. And it is required, all couples swear, and it will be interesting to it to learn the opinion not of girlfriends, and other man on a quarrel.
5. To find out strengths of the rival and his shortcomings. Here it is important to make a start from opinion about them of the girl, but not about your personal.
6. Make the list of merits of the rival and his shortcomings. Write down it on paper, and study every day. You need to try to have the same advantages which she in it appreciates. But at the same time to get rid of its shortcomings of itself. For example, it is pleasant to it that he meets her after study. Well, we can too. It is not pleasant to it that at a call from friends it gathers and sharply leaves. Means, you this way cannot act categorically.
7. Thus, day after day she will see in you the ideal friend and the man.
8. Further it is required to disappear for a while. To leave somewhere or to create visibility of it. Having been left without you, the girl will understand how you take a lot of place in her life and as are important. The girl can it and not tell out of pride, but she will learn this lesson for herself.
9. Having returned, take an interest in her life during this time, discuss problems. If quarrels with the rival took place, analyze them in detail. Also side with the girl, kind of you actually did not consider.
10. Now it was necessary to wait for their quarrel, it is desirable large that it was in tears. At such moments of the girl are very sensitive.
11. Calming her, embrace, stroke on hair, wipe tears. Then kiss her at first on a cheek, then kind of inadvertently on lips. Also whisper on an ear: "There is a fool! If I have such girl, I on hands would carry her".
12. You can consider that it's done. The girl perhaps and not at once will leave him, but it will occur soon. Also she will go not to emptiness, and to you.