The love is the finest feeling on the earth. It brings feeling of internal harmony, infinite happiness, gives absolutely new sense to each event and an act. But all this is fair only when the love is mutual. There is nothing more sadly and heavier than meek attachment. Therefore from time immemorial people are ready for everything to find reciprocity. Not casually there is a saying that "all is fair in love and war".
It is required to you
- Patience, self-confidence, self-control and endurance
Instruction
1. First of all objectively and without illusions to estimate the current situation. If you made the decision to conduct resolute fight for the happiness, be adjusted on long and cool fight. As specialists in the NLP note, it is simpler to take away the person from already existing relations, than to win free. However a number of conditions without which performance nothing will turn out has to be observed here. First of all, the relations in couple have to be settled and the period of the first sharp love already behind. This condition is very important. If the romantic period is not finished yet, subject to your hunting will see only the beloved, and in the most ideal and sublime image. And your any advantages will not help to distract it from the desired purpose. So in this case it is necessary only to step aside and wait more opportunity. And here if the first love ceased and "pink glasses" of enthusiasm begin to slip a little, it is a high time to start active actions.
2. The second important conditions of successful gain – you have to enter the same circle, as couple interesting you. It is necessary in order that you had an opportunity freely to communicate with your victim and to play on contrasts. This method is very effective in case you have to oppose favourably yourself in relation to the competitor. It is not necessary to try to compete with her in something only at all, it is not favorable to you at all. Here to find the best what your competitor "does not give the rest of" partner and to replace her in it. And you will be in more favorable situation as in relation to you the guy has no expectations – you are obliged to it by nothing. Even if the competitor is generous to couple absolutely in everything, it your advantage too. Just define in what it "goes to far" and arrive on the contrary. For example, she is excessively careful and attentive – show that you respect personal liberty of the man and you appreciate his independence; she speaks too much – emphasize the ability is interested to listen; she hangs on it and constantly needs the help – show that you the independent, independent woman. Such tactics will attract to you certain interest from the man.
3. Do not criticize at all and do not deride the competitor. On the contrary, in the presence of your future beloved try to praise her as much as possible. Commenting delightfully on any its acts, you at the same time achieve two objectives: you have an opportunity to depreciate even the most successful step of the competitor in the opinion of her partner and you provoke it to look for intentionally her shortcomings to disprove your statement. For example, the girl told nonsense. Do not laugh and do not criticize. Just defiantly sympathize: "Well, all of us are not perfect, happens". She successfully chose for it a gift – refer to her professionalism in love affairs: the real heartbreaker, always knows, than to please the man. Such, at first sight innocent, comments you try to obtain division of couple and sow mistrust. And to reproach you there is nothing – you only praise.
4. One more most effective reception – demonstrative respect. You do not apply for its attention at all and completely recognize all rights of your competitor for this man. Showing externally the respect for the rights of the competitor and consciously fading into the background, you thereby deprive of her guy of the society, become for it inaccessible. And what can be more attractive than a forbidden fruit? Following this simple advice, you will not notice how you quickly and without effort receive the desirable. And that's when time to think whether it was worth it will come. Not accidentally in the people say that "on others misfortune of the happiness you will not construct", and nobody cancelled personal responsibility for the acts.