When the woman meets the man who interested her, she wants to attract counter interest, to get and deepen with it the relations.
In this article we will consider how it is possible to catch the representative of an opposite sex interesting you for long time and also what methods for this purpose can be used.
How to win the heart of the man
For conquest of heart of the desired man it is necessary not only to be engaged in the external data, but also to correct the behavioural flaws.
Whether you know? About 2/3 bachelors wish to meet the only. At the same time nearly 62% of men will be glad if the girl acts as the initiator of acquaintance.
Work on creation of an ideal image
To become interesting to the man, to cause in him counter desire to get acquainted and get the relations with you, it is necessary to work at creation of the image. First of all it is important to look attractive and to be able well to keep.
To allocate the best advantages
To attract interest of men (including of the pleasant person), work over the style. First of all it is worth finding an optimum image which emphasizes your advantages and distracts from some imperfections of a figure.
Postoyte in front of the mirror and objectively estimate the appearance. Find advantages on which it is possible to place emphasis — for example if you have harmonious legs, do not hide them under trousers, emphasize a slender waist or a high breast.
Learn the type of a figure and how it is possible to distract correctly picked up clothes from its shortcomings. Define also the tsvetotip and pick up things and a make-up of suitable scale. Do not forget about conditions of the life and work: your image has to fit into them and correspond to your internal state, to be comfortable for you.
Whether you know? About 89% of men consider what to more attractive the woman is done by pleasant aroma.
If you are not able to wear heels, then you should not go on a date in such footwear at once — the gait of a padded grasshopper will not decorate you even if heels made your legs more harmonious. At first it is worth learning to go to them. Except clothes and footwear, pick up to yourself a good hairstyle and look after the skin.
To be self-assured
Men like self-assured women. If you have such problem as strong uncertainty and shyness, do not hesitate to ask for the help close people or the expert. The woman with a good self-assessment of the man is capable to be estimated above, than the beauty with complexes and cargo of psychological problems. Remember that diffidence — not a sentence, and such skill as confidence, it is possible to develop and train. At the same time you should not be zealous too in work on yourself — move ahead small steps not to turn into the haughty person.
You do not keep the I in isolation, learn to speak and communicate fluently with people, get to yourself an interesting hobby — it will help to find interlocutors easily. Find strengths of the nature and try to develop them.
It will be interesting to you to learn what to do to be pleasant to the man.
Be not engaged in excessive self-criticism and do not get stuck in negative emotions, be not afraid of failures. Learn to think rationally and not to wallow in the fears. The worthy man will never become interested and will not give the love to the woman who clings to him and bears humiliations for fear to lose him.
To work on an esthetics and health
Sports and healthy lifestyle have always a positive impact on all aspects of life — appearance, mood, work, success. The woman without addictions, healthy and well-groomed attracts bigger interest of the representatives of an opposite sex who are adjusted on the long relations and creation of family.
Whether you know? Body temperature at the stronger sex is 0.2 °C higher, than at women. In addition at women the heart fights more often and the pain threshold is higher.
If you have not a royal bearing and not an ideal body — all this can be changed and improved by means of fitness, yoga, occupations on exercise machines, a balanced diet.
At the same time it is recommended not to forget about well picked up make-up, a hairstyle, clothes and spirits. Even at the married man the look stops on the beautiful and well-groomed woman from whom pleasantly smells.
Work on the correct behavior
If the man still did not approach you to get acquainted, then it is worth thinking of that, how exactly you behave. We learn with what behavioral type prefer to get the man's relations and what behavior pushes away them.
To remember smile force
The woman with a smile radiating pleasure from life and positive emotions causes a positive spirit and of the environment including at men. Happy women feel comfortable everywhere and are a magnet for a men's look. The sincere smile always gives rise to reciprocal and helps to zakadrit the pleasant man. During communication with the representative of an opposite sex interesting you keep good mood, you give it the positive emotions and smile. Remember that your smile has to be natural, but not tense. You have to derive really pleasure from life and from communication with the man interesting you.
To be real
You should not undertake roles which are unusual for you. Whoever you from yourself represented, the truth will open sooner or later as you will hardly be able long to play a role of other person and will just morally be tired. The man in that case will feel deceived.
Important! Besides insincerity, a frequent mistake of women on appointments with men is transfer of the vital problems and clarification of an opportunity to solve them with its help. Also the roughness with service staff or, on the contrary, apologies for everything and also inattention (for example, communication on social networks at its presence), negative reviews about former can push away any gentleman from you.
If you the timid person, do not represent from yourself very self-assured person. It is not necessary to hide presence of children, to represent from itself the supercook if you hate cooking, or to put on high heels if you prefer to walk in flats, to watch together football if this sport irritates you. When you smile with a great effort, think what prevents you to rejoice and smile sincerely.
To be a little defenseless
Men on the nature are defenders, and it is pleasant to them to help the woman in some life situations. For example, to protect it from cold the clothes if the companion put on too easily or by the evening became cold, to drive away from it a dog, to carry out home on the dark lane. It is pleasant to men when women show some indecision and softness. Therefore be not afraid to show sometimes weakness (even if actually you the strong and self-assured person) and to ask about the help.
To learn to listen, and not just to speak
Some women very much like to give advice, to criticize and gossip. These features do not cause delight in men. The ability to listen is very important for the woman which decided to win the man.
At any conversation let's express to the man. Show interest in his life and you learn to feel it. Be interested in the fact that the person, important for you, thinks in any given occasion, than he lives. At the same time you should not kill it during the conversation and to hurry to give advice if you about it were not asked.
Important! It is impossible to watch the man, to control constantly where he and with whom, regularly to call and send the SMS concerning where it is now and what is engaged in. Such mistrust in each occasion will irritate any.
Listen to him even if the brought-up subject is uninteresting to you, do not distract and do not assent, thinking actually of the — your interlocutor surely will notice it. If you have other point of view, do not hurry to impose it and to insist on it, do not draw hasty conclusions and negative remarks.
How to win the man of a certain zodiac sign
Let's review briefly, than it is possible to attract the men who were born under different zodiac signs:
- Representatives of this sign are advocates of Domestic tyranny. In the relations with them it is worth showing complaisance and economy, to prove to be as the excellent hostess and good mother for your future children.
- With muzhchinoy-Vodoleem it is necessary to be on friendly terms and show to him attention. It cannot be limited in its interests and creativity, representatives of this sign hate scandals. They can like the original, attracting attention girl.
- This sign gives the attention to externally attractive girls. Beauty combination to intelligence will attract its bigger interest, and here the provocative behavior or an excessive initiative can push away him.
- Amorous men's type, it is enough to them to show a little interest to cause its activity. And here then it is necessary to pretend that the initial initiative went from it. It is necessary to let to it to feel the hunter.
- To make an impression on him, it is necessary to try very much. It likes well-groomed women with a broad outlook and the developed sense of humour.
- This type is very freedom-loving, and it cannot show the desire of the serious relations. He will prefer the self-sufficient women who are not needing its constant presence.
- These are egocentrics, it is very pleasant to them to see admiration from the fair sex. When they speak about something, it is necessary to listen to them. Crayfish will easily forgive to the woman shortcomings of appearance or inability to prepare, but will not forgive inability to behave, lack of sensitivity and lack of culture.
- Male Lev seeks to take the most important place in your life, will protect, will become a support. With it it is possible to be the weak woman. At the same time he badly transfers criticism and will not tolerate insincerity.
- Hates women with the shouting make-up and in a provocative attire. To it on an appointment it is necessary to put on more modestly and not to sing laudatory songs. He treats praises with scepticism, and still does not love scandals or others, the situations disturbing him at all.
- Are esthetes, but in women appreciate not appearance, but personal qualities. It is pleasant to it when share its interests, a way of life and hobbies. Hates slovenly and careless persons.
- He should not have the slightest doubts in your love and fidelity. Likes to hear compliments. It likes women who always look good and are erudite, can keep up the pleasant conversation.
- Well feels and does not transfer a lie at all. Even do not try to represent with them from yourself what you are not. It can like the girl who does not think stereotypes.
Mistakes which should be avoided
Drawing attention of the man to itself, it is necessary to avoid such mistakes:
- it is persuasive to admit ardent feelings and to constantly let know that completely you belong to it;
- to be readily available in every second, everything to stop and rushing on the first call in the middle of the night or the working day;
- to wear too revealing clothes which cover little;
- to offer and agree to intimate relationship on the first appointment;
- to call it sweetie nicknames, darling, especially at strangers;
- to show the independence and independence, the fact that nobody is necessary to you;
- to load too the problems — constant moaning and complaints to hard life will push away any;
- to criticize it for misses and mistakes, to make remarks for appearance, behavior;
- to show the superiority that you in everything it is better than it — quicker, is more bright, is more educated, you know more.
Whether you know? The zodiac belt and its 12 constellations were allocated in Babylon still B.C. Also ancient Greeks began to use this system, having given it the name Zodiac — on the basis of the words meaning a circle from animals.
Councils of the psychologist
To win the man and to hold him for a long time, professional psychologists give the following advice:
- You remember — men are visual. Therefore surely care for the appearance, be tidy.
- Show the good traits of character — kindness, care, tenderness.
- Surely behave with advantage — any scandals, hysterics.
- At meetings try to come into visual contact. It is necessary to look in the face, but not to look away. It disposes to communication more.
- Show that are glad to see it and you have a good mood.
- Try to find a neutral reason for communication — for example, ask to help with settings with the mobile phone, or accidentally drop near it something to begin a conversation;
- Surely show courtesies to the man. Attentively listen to him, show that his opinion is important for you.
- Give it the chance to talk about themselves favourite. Ask about his childhood, family, hobbies.
- If the person shows to you feelings, be not afraid to open to him.
- Try to find common interests. For example, you go on soccer or to theater together.
- Show an initiative. To ask how are you, to try to learn about a way of life of the man — in it there is nothing terrible.
If you are sure that before you your elect, then would be silly not to try to win his heart. Of course, men pay attention to beautiful women, but it is not enough to draw attention only with beautiful and well-groomed view.
Whether you know? The American psychologists found out that guys from poor families prefer girls with curvy shapes, and here the natives of rich families who are well off pay attention to slender women more.
To catch the man, also other personal qualities — self-confidence, ability to be interested and enjoy life, maintenance of good mood, ability to listen and speak are necessary.