How to write the first SMS to the girl

How to write the first SMS to the girl

SMS correspondence – an original, but dangerous way of acquaintance. During such communication the interlocutors do not see each other, therefore, the most part of information is inaccessible. In short messages the young man has to contain the sense of humour, charm and the attitude towards the girl.

Instruction

1. You should not remove the word of a greeting, despite its banality. Even in the ordinary speech we use them that not only to show respect for the interlocutor, but also to draw attention: "Hi. Did not change the mind about tomorrow?"

2. And here it is better to replace the question "what are you doing?". The alternative should be selected independently, depending on circumstances. If definitely you do not know, than your interlocutor is engaged now, assume: "do you cook soup?" The correctness of a guess is not basic, it is important that the girl responded.

3. If you approximately know where is and what the girl is engaged in, ask it directly about the events and about the relation to it. For example, if you know that the girl is at a lecture, ask it about something connected with a subject of occupations.

4. There is also the third option. Send to the girl a short joke. Show more step: avoid jokes which can be understood ambiguously. To it statements about intelligence or cultural level of a certain social group belong (your interlocutor also can treat it).

5. Use a joke which the girl definitely did not hear. If your first remark is banal, the first impression about you will be spoiled. The best option – an impromptu, the joke which is thought up by you just. As a source of inspiration you can use surrounding objects and circumstances.

6. Surely add a question of the girl. First, you show attention to her, secondly, will draw her into a conversation. it will be interesting to her to tell about itself even if she almost does not know you.

7. At the end of the message sign. Use an own, passport name (or derivative of it). The pseudonym or a nickname can arouse mistrust at the interlocutor, especially if she is far from circles in which you rotate. If desired you will open the second name later.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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