Parting seldom happens without serious consequences, especially if the relations lasted not one year. Feelings and emotions become aggravated, to the forefront there are pleasant memories, and soul reaches for the ex-boyfriend. But it is possible to brighten up parting and to make it not such painful and unfortunate.
Instruction
1. Analyze your relations and understand that everything was not so smooth. It is possible that you diligently closed eyes to some problems and shortcomings, suffered, made a compromise, and all the same nothing turned out. Understand that the relations filled with sufferings do not bring happiness, so, are not necessary to you.
2. Cross out the past and do not come back to it even mentally. At least, meanwhile you will not be able to do it without tears. Stop any communication with the ex-boyfriend – phone, social communications and personal meetings. Do not visit places in which you can face.
3. Do not lose self-confidence and do not look for shortcomings. Try to keep optimism and good mood even in hard times. Repeat more often to yourself what you beautiful, successful and clever that you had a confidence in Sebha and the forces.
4. Lead active lifestyle, communicate with friends more and be not closed in yourself. Get out to the nature, in clubs, walk more and play sports. It will help to distract with experiences, will allow to recover quicker after parting.
5. Find time for yourself and the desires. Use time which was released after parting. Be engaged in the hobbies which were not pleasant to the guy. Now you can attend any actions, without asking on it its permission, to communicate with guys and to behave as there is a wish.
6. Be engaged in the appearance, do not start yourself because of parting. Use it better to recover the shape. Change the style or at least a hairstyle. The new image will help to begin new life, will give you confidence.
7. Communicate with living people or in chats more. You strike up new acquaintances, be not closed in the sink, be open. It is not obligatory to begin the new relations at once, at first just feel favourite and necessary.