To a great regret, sometimes there are situations at which the woman falls in love with the married man, and such situations are not a rarity today. Many girls do not know how to cope with such problem and that it is the best of all to make – to leave the man or nevertheless to try to achieve him?
For a start it is necessary to be defined – you are ready to refuse the love for married, are ready to destroy others marriage or you will suit a role of the mistress? Depending on what option will be acceptable, it is necessary to develop strategy.
So, the first way – to try to forget everything and not to prevent others marriage. In that case just it is necessary to disappear and forget about married love. Also in that case it is necessary to try:
- To fill up all free time though something. However, it is not important, than it is necessary to be engaged, but occupation needs to be found. The most important is not to lie on a sofa and not to suffer;
- To realize feelings. Refusing so close, but inaccessible love, the person can have a set of the most various feelings and emotions. It can be pity, the underestimated self-assessment, rage, offense and also many other similar feelings. It is possible to express them after dialogue with the psychologist, the girlfriend or through entries in the personal diary;
- Not to forbid to release negative emotions. If there is desire to cry – it is necessary to cry if there is a wish to beat ware and to tear pillows – it is necessary to make it. Only you should not be engaged in public scandals or expression of feelings to the married man;
The second option at which it is necessary to fight for love of the married man. Let it be contrary to conscience, all the same some women will be ready to do anything to sweetheart the married man. Psychologists in such situation advise the following:
- The woman has to become the embodiment of all those qualities and advantages which are pleasant to the married man. It is necessary to remember that the married man will subconsciously compare the girl to the wife, and this comparison has to go to your advantage;
- It is necessary to begin to build up the most close relations with the married man. It is possible to begin with its hobby or another common cause. It is necessary to remember: what you will spend with the man more time, the it is more and trust degree will be higher, and understanding of general views will be that more;
It is necessary to refrain from transformation into the friend for the man. It is necessary to emphasize constantly the femininity and at the same time his courage.