Men were always perplexed why if the girl speaks "no", it not always means "no". On this subject thought up many aphorisms and jokes. Just at men the mentality is created not as at women.
Mentality at girls sublime and uncertain. They, besides specifics, have still such concepts as "I do not know", "can be", "rather yes, than there are no others" and. For this reason the girl can not always define the party in which it is necessary to decline the answer. A certain conclusion about what was meant by the lady in all situations cannot be made, each answer depends on a specific case.
General example of the negative answer
As well as all fauna, the person submits to a number of instincts which on an extent of life prompt that needs to be done. Sometimes the girl refuses only in order that the man showed big persistence. In all fauna the female of courtings runs away in the beginning from a male, but the male in turn needs not to think why occurred quite so, and to run for a female. To show her the speed, dexterity and force.
People have the same instinct. The girl has to understand that any given man courageous, courageous and self-assured. Besides, such behavior leads to a bigger emotional feeling and stronger attachment. These refusals help the woman to understand the man.
Situational concept of the negative answer
Also such answer can mean not concrete "no", and something it seems "not now" or "not here". Such denial can be heard in case the guy is pleasant to the girl, they walk and kiss, but the guy demands something bigger. The girl too not against, but, for example, is not pleasant to her the place. Then the refusal will have such value.
Subject concept of the negative answer
It is possible to review also other example. Perhaps, the girl likes a situation or a time span, and the guy. In this case neither romantic atmosphere, nor expectations of confluence of time will help. In such situation that "no" turned in "yes", it is necessary to work. It is necessary to learn from the girl what men are pleasant to her what has to be character, habits and other delicately. Just try to change yourself in her eyes. In a mysterious female soul the word "no" has not such concrete value, as in men's. Therefore it, of course, can mean in some cases and "yes", and still a set of different options. To understand the answer more particularly, it is necessary not to listen that is told by the woman, and to look at how she tells it, except the speech, there is still body language which is the brightest demonstration of feelings. And if, pronouncing a word, the girl means absolutely other sense, only language of a body and gestures will be able to prompt to you as it is necessary to work in any given situation.