The relations between lovers usually go through several stages. Alas, they very often come to an end when the boredom settles in a bed. And yours once darling does not excite you any more. You should not disperse only for this reason, it is necessary to restore the former relations.
If with the husband there is no wish for sex, then ask yourself a question. And whether you need it as the person whether there were in general with you to it feelings. If already everything fused, then it is almost impossible to save such marriage. You will not be able unconscious to exist long together. But if the love still lives in your heart, then there comes time to correct problems in a bed.
Some people assure that it is impossible to speak to the husband about such situation at all. That its self-assessment will decrease, he will feel defective. It is right, but only in case you without preparation tell it that you from sex with it do not feel satisfaction. Certainly, it is necessary to carry on a conversation in a different way.
At first it is necessary to discuss a situation. It is your common problems and your family. It is not necessary to act rashly. Try to discuss the situation softly. Many couples after several years of marriage have problems in sex. Perhaps, the spouse has the same feelings. It is not necessary to be surprised to it. Everything in the world bothers, also your sex cannot be an exception.
To receive excellent sex, you should change. And to both. Most likely, you are weighed in a bed by monotony. And the novelty will be able to revive your passion. Try to play role-playing games. For some time become the secretary, the innocent girl or the strict teacher. Well, and if the man does not go for changes, you should act independently. Options are not enough. Cardinal – to change the husband with the casual partner. Sometimes it helps to stir up former feelings. Expensive – to buy various devices in the sex shop and to try to be excited with their help at the time of a prelude. Pretty difficult – on the place of the husband to represent someone another. Only it should be done almost constantly. Each of these options can yield the results. One did not help – use the second. If you could not cope with this situation, then an exit two. Or to get divorced, give favourite and native into strange hands. Or to wait, after a while this stage will end in the relations.