Each person dreams to be able to find a common language with any interlocutor, but if from the birth you have no such gift, then it is necessary to study. To exclude emergence in conversations of disputes, scandals and misunderstanding, begins to interest many people subtleties and features of interpersonal communication. Thanks to similar sciences, everyone can learn the correct dialogue and interaction with other people. The term of communication can be deciphered so is a contact of two people which as a result develops between them any relations. During dialogue the people exchange not only words, and and the feelings and emotions.
Psychology of interpersonal communication
In total there are 3 types of such option of communication:
- Imperative. People who want to subordinate the interlocutor use this option and to force it to specific actions. It is possible to refer to features of such communication that coercion does not disappear, and is expressed in the form of orders, requirements, threats, etc.
- Manipulative. This option is similar to the first, but the main difference is that impact on the interlocutor happens by the hidden methods. The person is not interested in life or sincere qualities of the partner if it is not connected with his manipulations in any way.
- Dialogical. This option is based on equality of interlocutors.
Practical psychology of the rule of communication
- That dialogue did not bring discomfort, it is necessary to consider desires, a physical state and feelings, both own, and the interlocutor.
- You have to trust the opponent differently suspicions will be apprehended as insult and dialogue as a result will not take place.
- You learn to perceive the partner as equal, and surely consider his opinion.
- Dialogue has to be directed to the solution of common problems, and not just yours.
- It is not necessary to refer to any sources, use only mind and own opinion.
The psychology of communication helps the person to exclude the conflicts and quarrels with people around from life.
Psychology of effective communication
There are several councils which can use to win over interlocutors.
- Be interested in life of people around, thus, you will show not indifference to the person. Thanks to it the interlocutor will be more inclined to resolving necessary issues and to help you.
- Smile more often. There is such regularity: That the person was glad to communication with you, at first show it the joy. If to begin dialogue with a gloomy face, it to end with nothing good.
- It is proved that each person positively reacts to the name. Therefore at acquaintance try to remember it at once. If during the conversation to tell the name of the interlocutor from time to time, it for it will be a powerful compliment. When the person feels the importance, you precisely deserve him favor.
- You learn to listen to others. If the person wants to share something, it is not necessary to interrupt him and to ask to pass at once to business. It you by all means will offend the partner, so, about a good result of a conversation it is possible and not to dream. It is proved that people love good listeners more, than speakers. When the person speaks only about himself and does not give the chance to nobody else to express, people around perceive him as vainglorious egoist.
- It is very important to inspire in the person consciousness of its importance for you. Only it is not necessary to flatter, you speak sincerely about advantages of the interlocutor, only this way he will believe in your sincerity and by all means will answer the same.
Laws of psychology of communication are very useful to people who want to be good interlocutors and successful on life. You learn to express the thoughts and emotions by means of the correct words to achieve desirable results.