The name "intimofobiya" quite often misleads people and they consider that this disease – fear of sex. Actually, the intimofobiya does not prevent people to enter sexual intercourse at all – it prevents to build close relations with people. Some at the same time can deny and physical proximity, but the majority easily establish sexual contacts, but are not capable to let the person in the life and soul.
How fear of sex is called?
There is the official name and at fear to have sex – an erotophobia. As a rule, it pursues men with mental impotence and the woman with various diseases of the sexual sphere. Usually it develops at teenage or adult age. Such phobia as fear of sex at men and women, responds to treatment by psychotherapeutic methods.
Intimofobiya: reasons
Today doctors hardly define roots of such disease. It is known that now intimofobiya are subject more woman, than men. At the same time if at such woman the daughter is born, most likely she will repeat the fate of mother.
Allocate various reasons of an intimofobiya – and social (fight for equality), and psychological (inability to reveal, trust), and sexual (perhaps, sense of guilt, and as a result – avoiding of closer emotional contact). Quite often the intimofobiya arises those who were grown up by the lonely, disappointed with life mother with unbalanced character. Does not read out people from the childhood of people predictable, does not understand them, and as a result, cannot doveyat to them and build close relations. Such way – the choice of those who do not want to depend on other person.
It is considered that the intimofobiya, and at all not weakness to a female, operated acts of famous Casanova and the Philanderer.
Intimofobiya - treatment
It is not enough what intimofob recognizes that at it simply mental disorder. The man changing women every week does not think of the reasons and antinaturalness of the behavior, does not understand that it simply needs the good psychotherapist. As well as the woman who marries already in the third or for the fourth time, does not understand the reasons of the behavior and is inclined to blame for everything partners. However in these cases it is necessary just to receive medical treatment, and it will become much simpler to live, only from deep emotional connection we have true satisfaction and pleasure.
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