When you saw two treasured strips of the test for pregnancy, there is a wish to tell the whole world and to share the joy with people around. You do not hurry – not everyone needs to know. To whom when and how to present information – it is better to consider well that 9 months of expectation brought you only joy. The husband needs to tell first of all – even if you did not plan children, men almost always perceive news with pleasure though in the first several hours they can be in state of shock.
Girlfriends and friends
You should not be told about pregnancy ahead of time to girlfriends who a long time cannot give birth to the child or just endured an abortion. For them it will be heartrending experience. It is worth preparing them for news – tell that you had a similar situation and fears, recommend the doctor and surely you descend together with it to the expert. Friends who carry themselves to child-free do not need to tell about future child too. Lead active lifestyle, and then surprise them that pregnancy does not prevent to enjoy it, perhaps at all, they will reconsider the outlooks on life.
Who should not speak about pregnancy
Do not report about pregnancy to people who are negative to you. They will apprehend similar news as an occasion once again to offend you. Even do not think that pregnancy will help to improve the relations with the mother-in-law, at best she will defiantly emphasize that care – only for the child, and councils – as to the unsuccessful hostess and obviously bad mother. Tell her later, and on deadlines when it is already impossible to hide the situation, take a vacation or tell that were away on vacation to avoid visits.
The administration will not always share your joy
Be defined that to you it is important: that will think of you or your health and health of the child. If the management oppresses pregnant women – you should not be told. Always it is possible to find other work after the decree, to go on the following maternity leave, or perhaps during this time the management will manage to exchange. But here and now you need to finish to the decree and to receive payments in full. Not to justify delay – plan visits to the doctor for evening or on Saturday. If you plan pregnancy, it will be good if another holiday is necessary for a while before an exit in the decree and begin to wear free clothes in advance – so changes of clothes will not cause suspicions.
How to tell about pregnancy by that with whom you do not want to communicate
Send a card, it is better with a small gift. So you will tell about the situation and will save yourself from unpleasant dialogues. Make an addition that you became sleepy, and therefore you can not hear phone call, having designated by the most acceptable way of communication e-mail. And in case of a squall of councils correctly report that already passed school of motherhood, and the treating doctor was extremely competent and benevolent and met information lacks.