Reasonable manifestations of jealousy will give novelty to your relations, especially if you not the first year together. But sometimes this feeling gets a sharp pathological form, considerably influencing the relations of couple and provoking series of scandals. If it happened to you, do not disregard this problem.
You should not provoke the man, giving him an extra reason for jealousy. Minimize stories about the one who and as shows to you courtesies. The jealous person can is close to heart perceives information of this sort. And it is better to keep silent, than to give to it an extra reason for concerns.
It is considered that the feeling of diffidence is the cornerstone of jealousy. To solve a problem try to notice merits in the beloved and more often to speak to him about it. To eulogize the dignity of foreign man and to compare to him the husband - not the best invention. It is possible to wound already vulnerable self-esteem of the jealous man.
Direct talk with the spouse will help to avoid the scandals and misunderstanding arising on reticence. Having learned the concrete reason of manifestation of jealousy, try as it is possible to eliminate quicker it and to improve your relations. So, if you are jealous of your nice colleague, will be best exit to limit communication with it. For example, having refused calls to time off. But the jealousy can sometimes have pathological character, passing into the mental disorder which is shown in causeless flashes of jealousy. If in time not to render to the jealous man the psychological and medicamentous assistance, the fits of anger provoked by jealousy can lead to physical abuse or even punishment over you or those who shows to you interest. Methods of fight against jealousy do not help with an exceptional case. Why? Because the love is accompanied by trust and confidence in the partner in life. And if the jealousy of the spouse does not allow you to lead full-fledged life, holding down on hands and legs - it is not love, but selfish feeling of the owner. It is better to break off such relations.