Jealousy – familiar feeling for lovers and people close for each other. Often it appears suddenly, and on it there are most various reasons. It is necessary to understand the matter to get rid of this importunate feeling.
Psychologists understand the certain emotional state which is characterized by excessive suspiciousness as jealousy, and in some cases – fieriness and anger. It is tested to the same extent by both men, and women. In most cases the jealousy extends to an object of the love relations, but can affect both close friends, and relatives.
Most often jealousy explanation simple and clear: the person because of strong feelings to an object of the love perceives it already as a special subject or the thing belonging only to it to one. Because of it he begins to be suspicious of the soulmate when she communicates with an opposite sex, often is absent at home, behaves unusually, etc. There is a fear of loss, treason of darling. Usually such behavior is considered norm unless becomes unreasonable: the person begins to be jealous the object of love literally of everything, being depressed because of it. In such situations psychological assistance can be necessary.
Inclined to jealousy of people becomes usually in the childhood, for example, when parents begin to pay more attention it to brothers and sisters or other relatives. A reason for jealousy quite often are also friends who begin to spend time in other companies and cease to communicate as earlier. As a result the child gets a deep psychological trauma. Because of it there is a big uncertainty in surrounding people and itself, there is a fear to remain unaddressed, lose touch and the relations with loved and dear one or rage because of his constant suspicion of treachery. To overcome jealousy, it is necessary to glance deep into himself, to understand what was the cause for its emergence. Having found out it, think, your jealousy is how justified. Perhaps, there are no reasons for it at all, and fault to all is only your excessive suspiciousness and hot temperament. Try to become closer to people close to you: if you know each other better, then will begin to share even the most intimate. In this case you will be sure of the person on all hundred and will stop thinking that he from you hides something.