Each of us during the day (and so throughout all life) meets a huge number of people with whom he wants or is forced to communicate – at work, at home, in shop. Understanding of each other and achievement of mutually beneficial consent is one of the purposes of communication.
One of types of communication (communication) is language of a mimicry and gestures. Most of people use language of a mimicry and gestures, without thinking of it at all. The fact is that this skill is not acquired, and congenital is a way to show the positive and negative emotions. If communication with people it not only your everyday life, but also a work essence, then learning a sign language and a mimicry and also psychology of gestures can serve to you good service. As having such knowledge you will see and understand a little more, than others. It is known, gestures and a mimicry of the person are much more truthful than his words. For example, if speak to you At me everything is all right!, but at the same time the interlocutor purses lips, his mimicry will be accurate information.
People differ with temperament types, therefore, and force of expression of the emotions. Do you have acquaintances whose one short statement is followed by an improbable set of gestures, a mimicry, emotions – they swing hands, loudly speak, scale of expressions of their persons is extremely rich? Such people are called extroverts, these are open people, it is easy to communicate with them, their emotions can be read how the book. There are and polarly opposite people, introverts – very reserved, closed if to them it is cheerful, then not always the smile is present at faces. It is a little more difficult to understand such people, but it is possible at bigger attentiveness and observation.
It is in addition possible to learn intonation language as it and a mimicry of gestures work synchronously. It is noticed, by means of intonation language the people effectively communicate with small children and pets – for that and others it is very clear language (not word meaning, and their sounding plays a role here).
Language of sign and mimicry of men is 60% poorer, than at women and children. Men are laconic and reserved in expression of the emotions (in an unfamiliar situation it is aggravated, at least, twice). In other words, almost do not gesticulate, telling a story, not often lovely smile at the sight of an amusing kitten and furthermore do not cry, having broken a nail. That is why learning languages of a mimicry, gestures and intonation of people it is necessary to remember similar distinctions and to draw the correct conclusions. For example, psychologists – at the professional level with ease read body language, gestures and a mimicry practically of any person. And the good expert easily understands even a micromimicry (when at first sight it seems to the ordinary person that the interlocutor does not even blink).
It is necessary to remember if you want to study secrets of a mimicry and gestures, then also others can make it. Your body and the person speak about much to other people too. Having studied elements of languages of a facial expression (for example, views) and gestures of your body, you will be able to find more detailed and accurate information on the person during the conversation. Remember that except knowledge in everything also practice is necessary. Also pay attention to what languages at communication you use personally. Perhaps it is worth changing something, to exclude, correct. Gestures are nonverbal information – too words, only others. Track by means of a mirror what mimicry on your face most often. Successful people differ in the fact that are always quiet, slightly smiling, their gestures accurate and correct, at a voice there are sure notes.
Everything can learn. Having learned language of a mimicry and gestures, having chosen for itself suitable and favorable type of behavior, having learned a thicket to express positive emotions on a face, you thereby will achieve great success in communication. Bargains will be concluded much easier, with you it will become more interesting to friends, people around will see in you the good interlocutor - and it is one of the keys to success!