Since the Internet was strongly included into life and life of a huge number of people, there was such specific phenomenon as love on correspondence. The number of virtual novels grows day by day. Quite often it is necessary to hear that this phenomenon unnatural that it reduces the probability of the full-fledged relations between the man and the woman. And how the situation in reality is?
As a rule, the people or who were disappointed in family life, or the impressionable, timid, experiencing difficulties in communication with other people, especially with representatives of an opposite sex are inclined to virtual novels on social networks. In the first case such love allows or to make life of brighter, to get the emotions lacking in real life, compliments even if only in a virtual look, or to reduce mental anguish, resentment, disappointments after a break with the partner.
If the virtual novel arose at the people who are married they can keep family that is very important. The divorce not always enters their plans!
In the second case the virtual love allows to raise the self-assessment, to feel self-confidence. And it is of great importance for people who difficult are given communication because of complexes. Often it seems to them that people around disapprovingly treat them, wait for them a miss to laugh. Therefore any courtesy, a praise from the unfamiliar virtual interlocutor on social network is very pleasant for them. Involuntarily there is desire to get acquainted closer with this person, to learn about it more. If praises, compliments from its party proceed, then there can quite be feelings similar to love.
The most innocent compliment, for example, an appreciation of the photo or some work (poems, needlework, etc.) can even be such courtesy.
From the psychological point of view it is easily explainable. The attention, the interest of the stranger attracts the novelty. Especially if people do not receive (or it seems to them that do not receive) praises, recognition from the relatives, friends, acquaintances. For example, the woman forgot long ago when the husband the last time praised her, called beautiful and favourite. Or modest "office toiler" feels underestimated: the administration carps more often, than praises. And here suddenly from outside – compliments, sincere praises! And over and over again. Is from what to begin to spin to the head. Also cases when the love on correspondence overwhelms the people who are eager for sincere recognition are frequent. For example, very wealthy man wants that fell in love with him for human qualities, but not for wealth. Or the dazzling beauty dreams that the partner saw in her, first of all, internal, but not external beauty. Obviously false, underestimated information about themselves is often specified in these cases in questionnaires and at correspondence, for example, young people specify that they have a low material prosperity, live on the rental apartment or in the communal flat. There is a lot of reasons for emergence of virtual novels. And it is normal or is not normal, only their participants can solve. Anyway, if the person feels lonely, but he hesitates to take the first step in real life, it is better to get acquainted on the Internet and to begin the love story on correspondence, than to stay at home and "roll" in the negative thoughts. Perhaps, that novel will develop into something big.