Every day the person faces different people some of which try to manipulate him. But how to behave with representatives of society who try to operate you?
What is represented by manipulation psychology?
People who try to influence others are not so rare in your environment. Parents who try to force the child to arrive in the way chosen by them can even become an example of such influence. As influence methods either the notorious switch, or gingerbread usually acts. Say to the child that if he behaves well, then will receive candy. Or frighten that otherwise will punish. And how many happens daily in the world of the conflicts because of attempt to inspire the opinion parents! And how many small tragedies when the child is broken as the personality, and force to accept others opinion!
However this example of manipulations in psychology has not negative character as generally parents wish well to the children only.
It is much worse when the psychology of manipulation with people is used against the person. I will be the simplest example Roma. Probably, everyone knows that it is better not to communicate with such people as, having applied some hypnotic abilities, Roma can induce the person to do something against the will. It is rather often possible to hear as someone gave money, another – hours, and some even manage to take out savings from the house. Probably, not for nothing many subconsciously are afraid of Roma as have no such qualities which can be delivered to them in a counterbalance.
Council in case of collision with Roma just will go silently by them, looking not in eyes, and somewhere at the level of a cheek. However do not look down down at all - it is a strong indication of the fact that you consider yourself weaker! Calm down, you breathe exactly and go surely. Be sure of the forces and if they after all stopped you, then take away quietly their hand from the hand (favorite method, so they lull subconsciousness easy strokings), you look by as it was told above, and squeeze the left hand in a fist at this time so that the stuck nails hurt you. At sensation of pain to cause a condition of hypnosis very hard therefore for a short time do not feel sorry for yourself.
Hidden management of the person
However if you know about Roma and try not to be crossed with them, then with people who perfectly know psychology of manipulation and in perfection can exercise the hidden control of the person, work not so easily.
First, you recognize such people not at once.
Secondly, usually they act not with the hands.
Let's try to allocate from an environment of such representatives who put psychology of manipulation with people into practice. Happens so what you are forced to do something unpleasant for yourself if you are persuaded strongly? Or you are forced to behave as the leader in your group imposes you it? Whether happens so that you can induce something to be do if to dare you?
If you at least two times answered these questions yes, then methods of manipulation from psychology were applied to you. Before making up the mind to some step, let time to yourself think. Do not do anything of that kind on a bet what you made just like that. Do not give in on provocation. Learn to parry the words turned to you, you turn away from yourself blow. To learn to answer it is possible at home, standing at a mirror. Imagine some situations which already occurred in your life, and beat before yourself them as you would like, and in the future at you as it is necessary and it will turn out.
However especially to be obsessed that applied psychology of manipulations to you is not necessary, in the course of communication often it turns out so that there is a mutual influence at each other of interlocutors. Above-mentioned councils are fair only in case you feel how constantly try to operate you.