Men at all the external brutality are quite vulnerable. There are things which the stronger sex never admits to the woman. Each man has the "list of secrets", but it is possible to allocate seven general subjects "under a ban".
Let's talk about beauty
Most of men do not like to tell to women the truth concerning their appearance. Skilled husbands and lovers know that on questions of darling concerning her dresses, hairstyles or figures it is better not to leave caustic or truthful and tough comments. Most often such straightforwardness will turn back against them and will develop either in offense, or into a quarrel.
The best reaction to a subject of female beauty – a compliment or correct silence. If the appearance of the second half causes serious concern, present it the certificate in beauty shop better.
There is still a method to motivate the lady to put the body in order – to the man to play sports and to be in good physical shape. No talk has such force as a personal example.
Force and courage
For men it is very important to be "on a horse". Force, leadership, success, career development, financial wellbeing – these criteria also determine the man's "weight" in society.
Many men are afraid to look weak and lost in the opinion of the women. For this reason they prefer not to speak about problems at work or do it casually.
Also men very reluctantly admit the fears and weaknesses. The stronger sex often keeps the children's injuries and the latent phobias a secret. Agree, in female eyes the brutal man who got at the sight of a mouse or a spider on a chair very comically looks.
Speak about fear of height, the closed space or a congestion of people of the man, but too very reluctantly. Very few people from them will disclose the weaknesses, especially at the beginning of the love relations.
The unwillingness of men to show the incompetence in everyday issues belongs to the same category. Some are afraid to admit that they do not know the road and an hour aimlessly stray along a route, others – "to hammer a nail into inability" or in obvious gaps in education. Though in this case men do themselves "a disservice", it is much simpler to call the master and to pay his work, than most without results to potter with breakage in front of the woman.
As for money, wishing to make an impression on the pleasant lady, some men hide the true prosperity and can even get into debt, but "to maintain the reputation". Happens that it is a shame to men to admit that any thing just is too expensive for them. Therefore they invent any ways, go on cunnings or just take the credits to surprise, win or just to please the beloved.
As for a question of money, there is also a reverse side. There is a category of so diffident men who can break off the relations with the woman only because she more them earns.
Private life
Most of all things which the man does not admit to the woman concern private life.
First, it is about the previous relations, especially if it was serious feeling and parting, painful for the man. Sometimes women are very cruel and selfish in love, many literally crush under themselves the partner, and then throw with reproaches in his insolvency and spinelessness. Therefore hardly the man will tell the new passion about the failures on the love front unless in general and it is not enough.
If to trust psychologists, it is much easier to offend men, than women. Just they perfectly hide the real emotions behind an indifference mask. In the opinion of the beloved the man is afraid to look sad, angry or vulnerable for this reason men seldom admit that they are strongly offended by female jokes, claims or sneers.
The real man will not begin to tell the woman about negative reviews about her from the relatives or friends. If it seems to you that someone from an environment of your man dislikes you, perhaps, this is truethis is truethis is true, but from darling you will definitely not hear it.
The jealousy subject is very ambiguous too. Some men literally boil and nearly with fists rush on those who dared to flirt with his darling, and others on the contrary do not show that their this subject touches.
Once again not to upset the woman or not to provoke her to the conflict, most of men will not tell that other ladies actively show it an affection.
Well and classics of a genre – treason. It is unlikely some man will tell willingly the second half about the incorrectness. The vast majority of men to the last do not admit treason. Some, and so masterly lie that women even have also no shadow of doubt in honesty of "knights".
Some men do not tell the women about intimate sexual fantasies. On it there are several reasons. First, they are afraid to seem vulgar or even perverts, and secondly – it is simple to frighten or make laugh the partner.
Especially hypochondriac and scandalous persons can consider such recognition suspicious or even offensive.
Health
Some men prefer to keep the problems with health a secret. Most of men do not like to see doctors and to the last delay a visit.
And if a problem serious, they try not to concern the family and hide the diagnosis. Besides men think that complaining of sores, they look weak.
Problems of an intimate nature are considered as a special taboo. In this case they will be silent "as guerrillas", especially if business concerns potency or venereal diseases.
From time to time men, of course, need support and sympathy, but in general they do not like to complain of life to women.