Whether you sometime noticed that stay in the company of some people irritates your nervous system while to others pulls you as if a magnet? But the reasons of it not only in degree of an ukhozhennost of your interlocutor. The mimicry and gestures in communication will tell you a lot of things of that with whom you share the most intimate.
Nonverbal means of communication: mimicry and gestures
Body language (bodilengvidzh) has a direct connection with what social group the person treats. So, for example, if to look narrowly as behave during communication the business persons holding a senior position it is possible to notice that they possess a rich lexicon. In the same time if the interlocutor leads the life reminding activity of an amoeba, then in his communication the mimicry and gestures are as much as possible shown. The exception of the aforesaid is made only by emotional and those people whose national peculiarity show pronounced language of a body (residents of the countries of Latin America, Italy and so forth).
The psychology of communication of a mimicry and gestures makes a uniform picture about that to whom you talk. So, before starting communication, it is necessary to pay attention to a pose of your interlocutor. It is important to note that the symmetry arising on a face during display of any feeling speaks about sincerity of his emotions. At the same time the emotional falseness is distinguished by differences between expression of the right and left side of the person.
To see the interlocutor through
To learn to see the true attitude towards you of your environment by means of nonverbal signs it is possible after enough trainings after a while. So, set the task for yourself: to daily devote 15 minutes of the time for the analysis of language, both the body, and other people. Theoretically it is possible to gain new knowledge with studying books of the founder of exercises about a bodilengvidzha Alan Piz. Practically to fix – in any place where a large number of people meets and communicates.
Nonverbal communication: poses, gestures, mimicry
Let's give to your attention the main actions of the person by means of which you will have a certain notion of the interlocutor:
- Hands on a belt – you deal with the purposeful, business personality. She is ready to strike you the pressure. Other interpretation – before you the aggressive-minded interlocutor. Confirmation to the last – the fingers compressed in a fist and legs at shoulder length.
- The man outdid fingers of hands (cuts of pockets) before the woman, at the same time his pupils are expanded – he is sexually ready in relation to her.
- Rubs eyes or on fractions of a second touches with a hand the nose, and the eye is turned aside – the interlocutor is obviously not sincere with you.
- At a negotiating table the interlocutor holds a chair (hands on a lap), and its case is inclined in your party – he waits for end of your monologue.
But it is worth remembering that it is not recommended to make conclusions, proceeding from one movement, the attitude of the person towards you needs to be put on the basis of a complex of its gestures.