Quite often we hear expression my man "mother's darling". Let's try to understand who he is? How to define? And whether it is possible to live with it?
Generally it is the men who grew up in family without father, deprived of men's education. Since the birth of the boy mother or the grandmother brought up, indulged and indulged in everything. Therefore, having become the adult, he remained is dependent on mother, without understanding where her feelings come to an end and begin him. Since the childhood inspire in him that all women of the hunter behind the apartment and its freedom. Therefore having matured, he still lives with parents.
Mother can be understood too, she all life brought up the man and now has to give him to other woman. Suddenly the daughter-in-law will not cope?
There is a set of psychological portraits, but "mother's darling" deserves a particular interest as not to fall in love with this man very much and very difficult. Men of this type are gallant, attentive, brought up and are able to be pleasant to women. But joint life with this man will not be easy. The women in love with "mother's darling", some difficulties wait.
It is attached to the mother as got used that since the childhood, all decisions for it are made by mother and responsibility too on it. She solves in what to put on to what circle to go what specialty to choose therefore in the choice of the wife the word of mother can become decisive. You have to be pleasant to it.
That your marriage became happy, are ready, in a sense to replace to it mother and to be not the only woman, on the first place there will always be his mother. It will always compare you.
Advice to women in this situation:
- You should make friends with the mother-in-law. Otherwise, once the husband will take mother's position, and here and prior to a divorce nearby.
- Re-educate the man, show that he is a real man. It is difficult, but family happiness costs it. Constantly let know that you the weak woman who needs care and protection.
- Take the husband under the wing, become him the second mother. Care, preserve, direct and finally the husband will remove to you. Many women do it with the great pleasure.
Remember that happiness and tranquility of your family in your hands.