Did you for yourself notice that you during the conversation feel a certain alarm? This state is caused, first of all, by a lack of social skills. And nonverbal ways of communication are one of the main components of communicative links.
Verbal and nonverbal ways of communication
Communication is quite difficult social and psychological process of interaction of people. It is shown by means of the speech channel (verbal type) and not speech (therefore, nonverbal).
The speech structure is made:
- Tempo of speech, voice tonality, rhythm, timbre, diction and intonation. By scientists it is proved that the measured, smooth and quiet manner of the speech is most pleasant in a conversation.
- Value of phrases, words. The efficiency of whether you will be able to inform told to the consciousness listening, depends on the accuracy of the used word, correctness of the constructed phrase.
Treat nonverbal ways of communication:
- gestures;
- mimicry;
- various alarm and sign systems (Morse alphabet, programming language, warning system of civil defense and so forth).
It is important to note that both of these types are interconnected. Even, if the person verbally expresses insincerity, otherwise, lies, then and his language of a body, nonverbal communication, will give signals of the told lie. In such cases it is appropriate to claim that the behavior of such person is not congruent. That is the fact that he told does not correspond to signals, sent by his body.
Nonverbal ways of communication: gestures
From the above-stated list of nonverbal means of communication the first two ways called still primary or language of a body are of the greatest importance.
During the conversation there can be following types of gestures:
- Gesture of falsity – instant touch by a hand to own nose. It is a certain distinguished form of a prikryvaniye of a mouth by means of a hand. This sign speaks about doubt in something, insincerity. At the same time the turn of the corps of the interlocutor in your party is confirmation of interpretation of this gesture.
- The estimating gesture. Your listener scratches a chin, extends a forefinger along a cheek or it can in general found it necessary to rise and prokhazhivat backwards-forward? If quite so, then know that he obviously estimates either you, or information of which you told it.
- Domination – the personality aspiring though unconsciously, to domination, will do by hands resolute movements, waves from top to down and so forth.
- Do you want to make impressions of the wise person who is confident in the forces and is capable to keep everything under control? Then connect fingers in a dome of a pyramid or be a little shaken on a chair.
- Gesture of arrangement - hands are actively laid to a breast or the faltering touch to the interlocutor is observed.
- – hands come down for a back, and at the same time one strokes another or, sitting on a chair, the person seized hands an armrest.
- Expectation – a potiraniye of palms.
- Nervousness – tingling of a palm before sitting down on a chair, the interlocutor touches his back.
Nonverbal ways of communication: mimicry
Thanks to mimic movements of people expresses the internal emotional state. Their value is that they bear more than 70% of information. That is words are senseless as compared tell a face, eyes and a look.
Distinguish types of views:
- Oblique glance – the critical attitude towards the interlocutor.
- Business – creation of the serious atmosphere. It is recorded at the level of eyes of the interlocutor.
- Intimate - is directed below the person, to breast level. Says that the interlocutor is interested in communication.
- The secular look falls to the line of lips, but it is lower than the level of eyes. The atmosphere of ease of communication is created.
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