Strong marriage — a dream of many people. Unfortunately, over time the love is replaced by attachment and a habit, and the passion fades under oppression of life. Many men from behind it have a desire to feel new love.
Most often such desires arise during crisis of middle age, it quite often leads to men's unfaithfulness and disintegration of the strongest couples. The man at this stage of the life so wants to feel more young and more vigorously that he often begins to look for subconsciously the young mistress who will force it to feel like the boy again.
How to define treason?
There are many signs which to help to calculate treason. It is worth pricking up the ears at emergence of two-three such indicators, one and only speaks about treason much less often.
The easiest way to allow the doubts about it — to call the husband on straight talk. During such conversation it is necessary to keep itself from a hysterics, to speak quietly and directly. You should not accuse the husband from the very beginning.
Change of mood — one of disputable signs. Many men after appearance of the mistress become gloomy, irritable and silent at home. Sometimes there is a feeling that the man can constantly think of something, and any your words enrage him as considerably prevent it to concentrate. Actually, this state can be caused by problems at work, initially leave the husband alone (if other signs of treason are absent), perhaps, he just solves really difficult problem.
Do not "wind" yourself constant discussion of this concerning situation with girlfriends.
Delays "at work" and other signs
The lack of the house and delay at work serve as clearer instruction on a possible affair. For the mistress it is regularly necessary to find time from a habitual daily routine. Certainly, work can be excellent cover. If the husband about additional loading responds to inquiries something muffled, the wage level at noticeable increase in the working day does not change, and phone of the spouse is switched often-off, most likely, matter in the mistress. To dispel fears, somehow "accidentally" appear at an exit from its work as late evening approximately when it finishes the work on the changed schedule. Take with yourself the girlfriend that such visit looked plausibly. By results of such investigation draw conclusions. At least, you will have information. Sharp change of the attitude towards you can be sign of treason. The men tormented with sense of guilt begin to give to the wife flowers and gifts very often. Not so conscientious men, on the contrary, suddenly begin to notice all your shortcomings (on contrast with the new woman), constantly pointing to them.