Appointments of loving couple are disturbing for both, but special responsibility for interesting pastime lies on the man who should resolve many organizational issues, among which and search of subjects on which it is possible to talk to the girl.
On what subjects it is possible to talk to the girl on the first appointments?
The beginning of the relations of couple – the difficult period. Hormones and feelings read off scale because of what mental abilities of the most erudite and educated persons often suffer. And tastes and addictions of an object of sympathy are still not known. Therefore the main objective of the first appointments for the man – clarification of hobbies of the nice girl.
When for the first time you walk with the girlfriend, it is possible to talk about something neutral, for example, about cinema. The conversation about movies can be begun with film distribution novelties, then to share an impression of favourite pictures. One more fertile subject – favourite movies from the childhood. Sharing children's impressions it is rather easy to find a common ground and to transfer a conversation to personal subjects.
For development of the relations of loving couple it is very important to find the general hobbies. Joint drivings on skates or the bicycle, exchange of favourite books, and it is possible even fishing, are capable to bring together very quickly people and to make the relations easier.
Many good subjects for a conversation are connected with rest. With each other it is possible to share information on favourite holidays, trips, excursions, sights. And, besides, these subjects give a scope for an opportunity to make joint plans for the future – enough to plan a trip or a meeting of New year.
About what it is possible to talk to the girl if you already meet?
When the first stage of acquaintance passes, there can come such moment when it seems to lovers that they have nothing to talk any more. It, certainly, not so. During the first appointments of people often issues only the superficial and smoothed information, however at closer communication can reveal much more.
For example, telling about family on the first appointments, the girl can hold back the conflicts with mother, but she will tell about them to the constant beloved. Therefore it is worth returning to some subjects periodically to learn more intimate data. It is also peculiar to share the dreams and intimate desires to girls at more close acquaintance.
The men planning the long and serious relations have to develop this subject from the darling. It is possible to offer the girl a joint holiday in the resort, to discuss future wedding and some issues of cohabitation. Girls feel gratitude if the man himself brings up such subjects as many women dream of happy family, but only units decide to start talking about it. Besides, having understood that the man is ready seriously, the girl will feel more quietly and raskreposhchenny.
When planning the joint future one of the major subjects is connected with how the girl represents family life. The set of stains is around the world connected with a divergence of opinions on matrimonial duties, the birth and education of children. Within such conversation it is possible to touch upon very ticklish subjects, for example, of religious education of children, treason, etc.
What should not you speak with the girl about?
With the girl it is hardly worth speaking on subjects which she understands a little and which do not interest her. Of course, it is possible to tell in brief about how there took place repair of a car, but you should not go deep into technical details.
The last relations also you should not expatiate on private life too in detail – the girl can not show, but she will worry for certain, comparing herself to predecessors. And it is dangerous to ask her on the last relations – these memoirs can cause negative emotions.
Gossips about friends and acquaintances – also doubtful subject for a conversation. The girl for certain will be disappointed in the man liking to wash up bones.