Interesting conversation - a difficult task, especially in the arising relations. In this case, as a rule, stops fear to tell something not that or to make an impression of the boring interlocutor. Fortunately for the girl, there are universal subjects for discussion with the guy of any character and mentality.
If it is difficult to you to think up a subject for a conversation, do not despair. There are subjects uniting all guys on Earth. You remember them and communication with the new guy can become fascinating for both of you. If after all there was a pause in a conversation, be not frightened, you do not finger clothes and you do not look away. Make several deep breaths and relax. Sometimes the silence only helps to feel the arising feeling even more. It is the best sign of the fact that to you well together and without stream of words. However, to come into contact, it is possible to stick to safely in a conversation following subject.
Leading questions
Did you correspond already before or discussed stories from private life? Great! Ask additional questions which will help to develop a subject of family, study or work. First, such talk helps to learn more about each other, and secondly, these subjects bring together interlocutors.
What occurs in the world?
It is possible to discuss with the guy safely the events coming in the country and the world and also news from life of stars. Perhaps, it will become clear that you love the same band. Only do not go deep into policy - it is one of taboo subjects.
Ask for suggestions
Men like to predominate. They consider that they know everything about everything. If you want to approach the guy, ask him the help, whether it be study, work or personal cares. Let he will feel strong and clever. Thus you will let it know that you trust it to opinion.
How was your day?
It is the simplest and unostentatious question. It is universal, both for the new relations, and for family life. At the beginning of any history all it seems new and interesting. The conversation about events of last day will not be for you boring. Besides such conversation usually touches upon the mass of other subjects.
Hobby and hobbies
Learn whether the guy has any hobbies and show sincere interest in what he tells. Of what he is fond, certainly, important for him.
Ambitions
What he dreams of what he wants from this life? Guys like to make plans for life. Learn about them and unostentatiously offer ways of achievement of his dream. Believe, having found the correct words, you will easily achieve trust in the opinion of this guy, so, he will want to hear your council and in the future.
Flirtation
Guys like to play pranks. A little flirtation in a conversation will not prevent. However it is necessary to feel thinly when it is necessary to stop not to seem vulgar and trite. Choose the right time and ask several playful questions of his imaginations and of whether it finds you attractive. Such conversation can take place even if you communicate by SMS or on social networks.
Friends
Friends take the important place in heart of any man. Show interest in this party of his life. Perhaps, he will want to tell several amusing stories or even to acquaint you with friends. By the way, at a meeting with them remind of one of funny cases of their friendship. You will be able to laugh together at it, it will adjust his friends positively in relation to you, and your guy will shine with pride of you.
Games and cars
Perhaps, this cliche, but, nevertheless, most of guys really knows a lot of things about games or cars. Only do not try to say about what you do not know. It is possible to be trapped and to look silly. Just try to learn what video games are pleasant to it and whether it has a car. Small details will help you to know better whether you have common interests.
Do you haveDo you haveDo you have a future?
Asking a question, try also to give on it the answer. Offering a subject for a conversation, be ready to reveal. In the new relations it is important to learn as soon as possible whether partners suit one another. If you have nothing in common whether then it is worth spending time for such communication?