Psychology of a large family

Psychology of a large family

Formation of family means flexibility in the relations of both partners. Planning of a large family is that situation when the man needs to be extraordinary loyal and flexible in the relations.

The real family, in the true sense of the word, cannot be considered as full if at family composition there are no children. However standard option of family composition existence from one to two kids is considered. Three children are admissible too, but it is already more rare. And here if in family there are over three children, then in this case, the family is already considered large.

In family where there are a lot of children, the main load is placed, generally on the woman. So occurs, at least, before achievement at least by one child of age of 7 years. It is caused by that factor that to kids mother, but not the father is more main.

It is worth to rememberIt is worth to remember that the birth of children and a duty of feeding lies on the woman too. All this generates improbable force loading, as on a female body, and loading in the psychological plan.

No doubt, in family where there are a lot of children, (more than three) all tenor of life changes. But one remains undoubted – obligatory lack of any sort of the conflicts. Considering sharply increased load of the woman, the man needs to be especially loyal, both in discussion of any problems, and at simple communication with the woman.

In terms of the legislation, large families are supported. Various subsidies for payment of any given services, various privileges can be allocated, for example, at travel by transport. And simply, mother having many children – it is honourable, at least because to give rise, raise and raise more than three children – a problem of unreasonable complexity, is available only to those families in which the world, rest, consent and mutual understanding reigns.

Let's sum up the result. Planning of children is a responsible step which both partners have to approach. The large family can be planned in advance, however such step involves change of the existing tenor of life. The most important is to remember that mother having many children requires special attention to herself in every sense and from all directions. Except that each of partners will need to renounce any principles, the man will need to treat the woman much more loyally and what he would not tolerate in a usual situation, it is simple to pass by. Such actions will in the future be returned a hundredfold, and such relation will only strengthen family bonds and will strengthen the relations in family.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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