What it is necessary for each girl for happiness? That darling of people for her was always nearby, there was a minimum of quarrels and a maximum of romanticism. But how in the 21st century to reach full mutual understanding and trust? We will try to understand it.
Instruction
1. You remember how everything a nachinalosvsegda the romantic relations begin with favor spices, new darling can promise to you love to a coffin and the sea of gifts. But how it is possible to trust in the person whom you know practically nothing? Since the beginning of the relations it is necessary to look and recognize the person as much as possible to be sure of his reliability. Quite often cases when young people use to the girl for one or two months meet, and then run to look for new adventures and very young beauties further. Therefore be extremely careful, it for you absolutely new person with the surprises with which you will get acquainted further.
2. The biggest mistake is to lay great hopes on your relations. He the first time kissed you, and you already think how you will call the second son. It is not necessary so. It is possible to love and believe sincerely that you with darling will carry out all the life, but to expect and hint him about it at an early stage of the relations – a risky step, it is necessary to have a little patience and to wait for the moment when it is appropriate.
3. Be reconciled, reconciled, but only do not fight! There will pass half a year and in the relations there will be conflicts which each wise girl should not endure and to do nonsenses. Not to avoid quarrels in any way, be you on temperament absolutely balanced people. The occasion will be always, since jealousy, finishing "why you did not call back to me?".
4. You study mutual understanding, and as for trust is very hard feeling which should be developed in itself. First try, then trust, something is not pleasant to you – do not keep in yourself, discuss with darling, resolve this issue, but do not play "cat and mouse". Give each other to time for rest. If your young man wants to spend time with friends, to forbid – silly, to release – terribly. So to do? Try to put some idea to it that you love it so strongly that only I am glad that he at last will have a rest, but at the same time that it did not pile nonsenses and did not destroy your union. Big words sink to them into the soul, and they will be afraid to make a gaffe and to lose such big treasure as you. And then and you, after all, will be able to go with girlfriends to bar, but at the same time to be a faithful and reasonable girl you should remain that there was.