In each quarrel we try to argue the point of view, to prove the case, but on the other hand to us, of course there is a wish to come to mutual understanding and love. How to avoid a quarrel and how to behave? More...
Often in the relations between guy and girl, the husband or the wife there are quarrels. Ordinary absolutely insignificant quarrels because of which people either leave or get divorced. Why we are afraid to look at the partner with other eyes? What interferes with us? What pushes us on a quarrel with darling? And how it it is possible to avoid? In this article I will try to answer these questions and to tell about the ideal relations in couple. First, I will tell about what pushed me to write article on this subject. Everything is very simple. I too swear for a long time at the guy. And I know from the experience that men will never change both that we never and will be able to prove anything to them but only we will spend own nerves and precious time. And even if you could in what - to convince the partner, believe, anyway everyone will keep the own opinion opinion and will think that he or she is right. Let's begin with the fact that being in a quarrel some people at once go to the extremities: leave or get divorced. I consider that it is wrong. The relations are under construction on trust and mutual understanding, on patience, on ability to understand and learn to listen to the half. As it appeared, it is not so difficult to make it. I want to give several advice which you can quite use:
1) Try in a quarrel with the partner just to keep silent or at least do not try to argue or perekrivat. Believe, it is unpleasant. Try to understand the guy or the girl, "" to understand his (her) position. Join hands, calm down and calm darling(s). So you will show how strongly you love and appreciate each other. 2) Remember that how many the good and happy moments you worried together. Try to talk about it, to remember it together. Sit down and watch the favourite movie which perhaps you watched when you only met.
3) Fall in love with yourself and the shortcomings then fall in love with shortcomings of the darling. Agree what bad he would not be in him there is something like that that hooked on you what you fell in love with. 4) During the quarrel sharply kiss passionately the partner, ask forgiveness on an ear, loudly make a declaration of love, take on hands or strong embrace. Surprise - it is important at the time of the quarrel and furthermore pleasant surprise. Only you will not spoil anything! It is possible to give a heap of ways of the fact that it is necessary to make to reconcile, avoid a quarrel. All of us different and everyone chooses as to it to arrive. But if you really appreciate, love and respect the soulmate, want he(she) to be happy, then learn to understand each other, spend together much time (outdoors and to a habitual situation), spend time more often where to you to two it was good, be not afraid to state the ideas or offers. You speak with each other, you embrace, hold hands, kiss - life one. Why to spend it for quarrels?