Problem of any family are the relations of the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law. What relations happen between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law and what problems are usually connected with?
One of the reasons of disagreements between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law, is cohabitation. Two hostesses in the house are a problem. The mother-in-law has the rules established in family for years, and the daughter-in-law comes absolutely from other family which also had rules. Therefore there are generally quarrels because of household problems. Not there put, not so washed the floor or the dishes, things in a case and many other things are incorrectly put. If young people live separately, seldom see the husband's parents, these problems disappear. But unfortunately, not absolutely.
There are such mothers-in-law who even at distance try to operate young family. Or hobby of the mean mother-in-law to appear on a visit is perfect without prevention, to check as it is removed the house, the lunch is made or not whether shirts and trousers of her beloved sonny are smoothed out. And after such checks, having convinced that all not as she wanted to keep ringing to the son with complaints and criticism to the daughter-in-law. Bringing, thus, quarrels in their family.
Any mother always takes the part of the own child how many to him there would be no years, forgetting that near her child too someone's child. It is especially heavy to have to those girls who married the guy who is the only child in family moreover maybe late.
Mother who throughout the life gave all herself only to it, sacrificing interests, career, will not be able to leave the child. Therefore to the girl with such mother-in-law it will be very difficult to improve the relations.
Such mothers can be understood, now very many women raise children, without participation of the second parent. And giving the son to other woman, she can be frightened to remain absolutely lonely and to nobody necessary. Then the daughter-in-law should try softly and it is very correct to explain to her that you are not going to select forever her son at all. Also you will be worthy support and a support to her child.
To the girl very much will carry if her husband is not mother's darling. Will have the opinion and to listen to her, at the same time not to offend the mother.
It is impossible to forget about the fact that daughters-in-law are not always ideal. And also can be the cause of quarrels, winding too obedient and trustful husband against parents. The most good relations happen between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law when the mother-in-law approves the choice of the son in advance. Then she will do everything possible that children lived in peace.