Having had a remarkable opportunity to start everything with a clean slate, to construct new family anew, it is necessary to try not to repeat errors of last relations.
Instruction
1. Carry out the serious analysis of your last relations what emergence of scandals what personal qualities and acts of your former spouse most of all offended you was connected with, irritated. Make sure thatMake sure that the new partner in life has no qualities, especially unpleasant for you, or prepare yourself for the fact that they should be not noticed, focusing the attention on advantages of darling.
2. Make sure thatMake sure that you have no feelings to the ex-husband (wife). It is impossible to extinguish feelings the new relations, so you will only transfer the existing problems to new family. Marriage from revenge will not give relief and to be hardly long, do not aggravate a situation.
3. It is necessary to leave the past in the past. Stop to feel sorry for yourself, release all offenses. Forgive yourself and your former partner in life all mistakes and offenses, all pain which you caused to each other. Take all wrong moves which were taken into account and do not repeat the mistakes in the new relations. Change the behavior. You do not transfer old problems to the new relations, the result will be identical.
4. Never compare aloud the new partner in life to old. Of course, the choice of the new beloved proceeds from comparison of its qualities and advantages with qualities and character of the person from the last relations. To make a right choice and to construct the cordial strong relations, it is worth avoiding the person with the same temperament with which you refused to be reconciled in the past. But you should not sound the thoughts, it can seriously touch the new spouse and to become the cause of new disputes and scandals.
5. You learn to listen and hear the darling. You communicate, share thoughts and experiences. Do not start a problem, do not leave them on drift when they collect, it is heavier to understand the reasons and to find a mutually advantageous solution. Make concessions to darling, you reach compromise, your soulmate will always meet requirements of you. Protect, you store the new relations in all ways, change of the partner in fact changes nothing if you do not solve a problem, and carry with yourself as baggage.
6. Do not listen to foreign opinion, you have to make all decisions independently, listening to a voice of heart and reason, these are your relations, your life and only you in the answer for the happiness.