The secret of good health, the brought mood, success in affairs of each girl and the young man is partly concealed in the amicable atmosphere of young family. In it all support each other despite possible petty misunderstanding. Each of members of such family can be engaged in absolutely different occupations, to be a fan absolutely not of adjacent musical styles and to differently spend a vacation, than his partner, but if business concerns something global, then their purposes have an identical reference point.
Strong close-knit family – pledge of the happy future
In the modern world where statistics says that the number of divorces among newlyweds, a close-knit family a rarity increased. Because in the first years of joint life the partners from a different angle look at each other and often do not find forces capable to settle the arisen conflicts. But it is possible to start a big close-knit family, having rejected own egoism. More precisely egoism of unhealthy character at which either everyone, or one of partners sees only own interests and considers important only the personality. That is to couples loving each other it is necessary daily not only to get love, but also to give. Not to pull a blanket on itself, it generates only conflict situations, and to understand requirements of the partner.
But the main feature of a close-knit family is the common, so to say, global goal or at everyone it has to supplement the purposes of another. The family without the purpose is as if the house without the base, it is simply unstable. There is no guarantee that will long exist until this basis is not created.
The problem arising during creation of such family is that sometimes not that partners have no uniform purposes, and the personality cannot decide on the purpose, vital aspirations. And therefore, without having understood itself, it is senseless to accuse of something the partner. The factor when one of the loving spouses helps another to decide on his life priorities is important.
How to make close-knit family?
Let's provide to your attention the list of the main secrets of success of young family:
- Spouses are always happy with each other, at the same time, without demanding much from the partner. First of all, they ask the question What to Me to Make It that He / She Was Happier?.
- Both know that sorrows, will manage to cope with the losses together, at the same time without losing hopes that in their joint life still there will be a large number of pleasant moments.
- Between the husband and the wife there is not only a love, but also mutual respect. They are capable to be, depending on life situations, not only the soulmate, but also the friend, capable to give objective assessment of the situation and a valuable advice.
- In such family there is no division on my or your. Here the general as money, housing, things, and difficulties. Anybody has no secrets from each other, and it generates absolute trust to the partner.
- Also nobody insists on division of the obligation into men's and women's. This family – one team therefore everyone seeks to assist in all affairs. Of course, there are also such duties which are psychologically closer to the man and the woman (repair of plumbing lays down on male shoulders, and washing and ironing of linen – on women's).
- As for sexual aspect of life of this family, the husband and the wife can tell freely each other about the preferences and reasonings. If something happens, one of partners is ready to try new technicians, understanding that it does love of all the life happier is pleasant to him.
- Members of a close-knit family understand that quarrels always need to be finished peacefully. Misunderstanding are only capable to create an abyss between them
- Even, if one of young spouses for any reasons dislikes either the relative, or someone from friends of the partner, it does not generate the conflicts. At each person on all the opinion. Just in love in this situation with patience and understanding treat it.