Many parents are so keen on the child that do not even notice how overstep the bound between education and overindulgence. There is a number of signs which will prompt to you that it is worth stopping.
Desire of the child is the most important
In couple the parent child to dominants has to be someone from parents. If this place is taken by the child, then it is worth beginning to worry. All whims of the child have to be satisfied only at infantile age.
The child is not able to behave in public
When parents especially forbid nothing to the child and do not try to teach him to good manners in society, nothing good from this will leave. It will be very difficult for it to adapt later.
Indistinct borders
To children it is very difficult when parents change every day limits of behavior. Yesterday it was possible, and today it is already impossible. If established any ban, then observe it constantly. And it will be easier for the child.
Lack of sense of responsibility for the actions
Years with three children begin to realize that all actions bear for themselves consequences. When parents constantly write off everything for age of the child, they deprive of it the right to be responsible for the acts. In parallel with it, they do not allow it to mature morally.
Frequent gifts
So it developed that some parents consider that multiple gifts they show to the child the love. But psychologists are sure that gifts without cause promote that children become consumers and egoists.
Everything is reached by means of hysterics
When the child begins to cry, parents are ready to go to various conditions if only the child stopped a hysterics. Unfortunately, such complaisance of parents lets know to the child that it is that way which will help it to receive the desirable, and begin to manipulate you constantly.
Adults as children
Nobody is ideal. Parents can be mistaken too. Sometimes they set the wrong example to the child (hysterics, whims, the desires above all). The child perceives not words, and action. And then actively puts them into practice.
So for a start, you have to become a good example for the child. Be not afraid if something is impossible to you. All people study on the mistakes. You love the child and everything will turn out.