In the world there is not only a great number of single mothers, but also fathers who independently raise the children, without the aid of the woman. Such men, as a rule, have very strong character.
The single father – the man special
In modern society the single father - the widespread phenomenon which is quietly perceived by surrounding. Now ideas of men's and female duties mixed up a little. Many women are engaged now, generally by career and do not consider that their main duty is to raise children and to protect a home. They, without thinking, leave children with fathers and leave to build career or just leave. To another.
Who such single father? Those men become for various reasons. Most often, single fathers are the widowers who lost the beloved. There are men who take away children from the spouse because of her inadequate attitude towards them. It turns out that single fathers are not just men, and special, purposeful and responsible people. To bring up the child independently, especially from infantile age, a task not so simple.
How to enter into the relations or to get acquainted with the single father
The destiny can dispose so that heart will choose the lonely father with the child. How to approach such man what to begin a conversation with and how not to tread on its corns? In attempts to construct the relations with the single father it is necessary to remember some rules. Beginning acquaintance to the man, it is important to understand what place in the life he defines for the woman.
It is necessary to improve the friendly relations with the father before winning the child's heart.
Beginning communication with the child, it is necessary to behave naturally. It is not necessary to represent from itself careful "mummy" and to be imposed to the child. Such actions will only emphasize insincerity of feelings and will push away from you the child and his parent. Imposing of own methods of education of the child will be apprehended by the father negatively. He brings up the child almost since the birth and already has the settled measures of encouragement and punishments.
For this reason all attempts to re-educate the child in own way will be perceived in bayonets.
It is impossible to seek to win the man's heart completely at all and to show jealousy of the child. Quite often women make this mistake, heating the atmosphere in the relations. If the father wants to spend the whole day only with the child, it is necessary to accept it quietly, without jealousy and offenses. Entering into the relations with such man, the lonely woman has to behave most sincerely. Such actions will give the chance to find not only the beloved, but also to become the good friend for his child. And further, perhaps, careful mother.