It is often possible to hear from modern parents that their children not such what were them in their years. Also quite often say that the younger generation lost any values that for teenagers there is nothing sacred. However this delusion of adults.
It is important to adult to understand that children will never be such what were them in their years. Reason for that temporary changes. However those who claim that for the modern teenager there are no values, except material are not right.
Of course, it is impossible to deny that now cultural wealth loses the importance, and teenagers are concerned by maintenance there is nobody "status" among peers. Often they try to stand out from the crowd not mind and inquisitiveness, but existence of the iPhone, tablet, fashionable jeans, branded undershirts and so forth. Those who for some reason have no it become derelicts.
There are also more deep problems. For example, drug addiction. According to polls, 19% of the interviewed teenagers are concerned by a problem of the use and drug trafficking among young people. In this regard one more problem - transfers of HIV infection among the addict appears.
Statistically, 31% of teenagers are concerned by the intense relationship with parents. The reason for that misunderstanding by their parents and obstinacy from the child. Sometimes unwillingness to study. By the way parents do not consider this problem as acute as children.
At a late stage of a podrostnichestvo of children the self-determination problem in life concerns. The majority wants to be engaged not just in the business bringing the unearthly benefits, but it surely has to be pleasant and bring moral satisfaction. In spite of the fact that the institution of the family gradually loses the positions, still teenagers want further normal full-fledged family and children.
Adults should remember that teenagers most often hesitate to speak about the problems, to tell about them. At the same time endured during the teenage period – from 13 to 17 years – postpones a print for all future life. According to doctor Irvin, adults are inclined to underestimate emotional and psychological problems of the children, focusing attention only on an outer sheath.
If you show sympathy and compassion to the teenager, will participate in his problems, then it will pay back you a hundredfold, let not at once, but then it is obligatory.