Opposition of the wife and mistress is a widespread situation and a problem of modern life. The man should make the choice depending on own requirements.
Most of women dreams to stay as the mistress that though for the evening to get rid of household chores. Especially it concerns the women having big family. Each female representative wants to be favourite and desired. But mistresses get very often all love and tenderness, and wives constantly create comfort and a cosiness in the house.
The unwillingness to leave family, despite strong feelings and bright feelings is the most common cause of parting of the man with the mistress. As a rule, the choice of the man is made in favor of the wife and children. It is caused by the fact that life is already adjusted, they know each other habits. And not the fact that the mistress will be the good hostess and careful mother. And the wife for the man is a reliable back, confidence in tomorrow. He can tell it about any problem (at work, with health). As a rule, for the mistress he has to remain the strong, passionate and successful macho.
The man chooses the wife because she completely trusts him, at home behaves naturally, without hiding behind a mask. The mistress should be constantly in good shape, to look stunning, otherwise the man will find the new passion. The mistress is a way to vanish from working problems, from household chores and monotony in life. Meetings, as a rule, are short-term and have an intimate nature. For the man it is spare option. But the rare husband will desert family for the sake of fleeting hobby. Only one man is capable to leave twenty to the mistress. And that, very often the mistress is a pretext, but actually the reason of a rupture of a cell of society disappears absolutely in another.