The offer to marry — a serious step not only for the man, but also for that woman who receives it. Before taking some step, it is necessary to consider it well. It is necessary to understand whether on the business the man is ready seriously or does such offer on other reason, especially if it arrives in two weeks after acquaintance.
Here so surprise!
The first appointment with the man took place perfectly well. No matter, where it happened, the main thing that the atmosphere was filled only with positive emotions. When she comes back home, all her thoughts will be filled by this man. It will be remembered every moment — to trifles. But the woman will not think of something serious, early still for this purpose yet.
There passed two weeks from the moment of the first appointment, and here he calls in marriage. For the woman it will be surprise. This offer will set the girl thinking how serious intentions at her elect.
What does he want actually?
In a situation when the man calls in marriage after two weeks of acquaintance, there can be several options of understanding of its intentions. But it is not necessary to think that the logic of an opposite sex is simple: if called in marriage, then so it also is, and does not mean any self-interest. First, as we know, duration of appointments and meetings not always negatively affects quality of marriage. Some long meet, but having got married, cannot live also years together, get divorced. Another of rather short period to understand that it is their soulmate with whom they want to live all life. Therefore if the man suggested to marry him, it is not necessary to give hasty answers. Secondly, if in two weeks the man ripened for the offer, but at the same time suggests the woman to move to it immediately, it is worth thinking and whether there is in its decision no dirty trick. In such situation there can be two options: - the man really is crazy about the woman and is ready to make for the sake of her mad acts; - it has vested interest, being covered at the same time with proposal. In the first case the man tries to prove in any way to the woman that it has to her a sincere love. In the second option it applies various tricks to drag the girl in a bed. It is necessary to remember that not each man will decide to make the proposal to the woman in two weeks of acquaintance. For it it will be appropriate to know better each other, to get acquainted with family of the darling. Some men before marrying, decide to check the relations with the woman life.
How to define its gravity?
The woman should trying to learn whether there is no man in a difficult situation, such as quarrel with the girl or a divorce. The men who were married, as a rule, do not do rash decisions. Therefore it will be useful for woman to find out whether he just wants thus to have a good time. It is necessary to pay attention to whether he is interested in the darling as the personality. If he speaks about himself more, so the gravity of its intentions should be called into question. It is necessary to remember whether he kept the promise. If said that will call five, and did it only in several hours or days, forcing the girl to worry, it is worth thinking of its intentions. It is possible to allow such irresponsibility only in case it had a good reason not to keep the promise. At the man with serious intentions the behavior is certain and predictable. Saying goodbye to the woman, he plans a new meeting, says that he will call in the evening (during the lunchtime, in the morning). If the man insists on intimate proximity, without reckoning with desires of the woman, then he wants only it. The decent person will wait until the woman gives the consent to such serious step in their relations. Before agreeing to the proposal of the man to marry him, it is necessary to understand whether the woman herself is ready to such step. After that it is necessary to pay attention to it. Only having understood, as its intentions are serious, to give the answer.