Friendship time for decades, and sometimes and until the end of life, unites people. It is sometimes stronger even than love. Not for nothing friends speak "do not pour water". Happen in life of minute when only the friend understands and will help. And the most important in friendship is a devotion, sincerity, understanding.
To treachery not the place in firm friendship
Friendship can arise in school days, and even earlier. People whom it united, know about the friend almost everything. And it is heavy responsibility. The ability to keep secrets of private life of the friend is worth a lot. Often difficult happens not to say too much in a simple conversation with neighbors or acquaintances. And a word not a sparrow, and told you do not turn back. It can sometimes lead to a deep crack in good old friendship. To regain the trust of the friend it can not always be simple business.
There are cases when the best friends who ate together not one pood of salt, having quarreled on some, often trifling, the reason in a rush of rage make treachery. And friendship and treachery – absolutely incompatible, polar concepts. The last is capable to destroy the friendship grown for years irrevocably suddenly. Therefore it is worth overcoming this all-destroying feeling of rage at the moments of the conflicts and to remember all fine that to you was presented by friendship with this person.
Sincerity of friends
Friendship is always based on mutual sincerity. It concerns friendly relationship and common interests following from them. If any mote of a lie crept in, then it by all means will expand over time in a big lump and will crush your friendship. Especially as all secret becomes obvious sooner or later. However it should be taken into accountit should be taken into account that each person, even to bosom friends, needs personal space. Without it it is possible just to choke. Sometimes so there is a wish to be alone, and the friend has to understand and not fall it into a hysterics. Otherwise the explosion moment in your friendly relations will come. And consequences can be various.
Understanding
"A friend in need is a friend indeed" - the popular wisdom says. During difficult moments of life the friend's vest is so necessary that in it to be cried. The true friend will always listen, will understand and if it is necessary and will help to endure personal crisis. An important point in it is the ability to listen. And not just to listen, and to hear the friend's voice. Not always there is a wish to listen to "slobber" even if friend, especially when at you everything in life is remarkable. But to make over itself the effort in this case - means to keep friendship. Nobody in this life is insured from a black strip. Life as if zebra: the black strip is replaced by a white strip. Today you supported the friend, and tomorrow he will allow you to be cried in the vest and will lend a friendly shoulder.