Sooner or later parents should realize the fact that their daughter or son had for the first time feeling of love. Each parent will confirm the fact that the first love should be carried to extremely mixed feeling in the period of which their child very strongly worries and endures similar feeling extremely painfully.
Teenage relationship of young men and girls are sometimes very tender and touching, and are not forgotten until the end of days. Even the elderly people who are married several times and having a set of relations subsequently, in the evening of life with tenderness, admiration and slight grief remember furtively the youthful tender feelings.
Teenage experiences the most considerable, the most sentimental and unpredictable. The first love happens not at all, but if nevertheless teenagers fall in love, then they are completely given to this mysterious feeling, forgetting about everything and not thinking about any other problems. In this case the role of parents is in showing a step and understanding. And if, following the tastes of the prejudices, indifference and egoism, they destroy the child's relations, that will never forgive them it, and moreover will nurse a grievance concerning the parent on for the rest of the life.
Teenagers share the experiences with mothers and fathers not always even if before between them there was a full frankness. The first love is a thing very intimate, fragile, up to the end not learned even by lovers. What to be surprised here to what the child does not want to tell with strangers on this subject when there are not even enough words sometimes to express that unknown, frightening and unique that he feels.
But how then to close people to understand that their matured child endures the difficult period of teenage love in time to manage to help it council and support? Even if the teenager has no desire to be frank with parents, then its feelings with children's spontaneity ask outside. The emotions splashing too much are visible with the naked eye, and surrounding changes in behavior of the teenager at the attentive attitude towards him are clearly visible.