For the guy break in relations with the girlfriend – hard test, especially when she throws it. Here both the hurt male pride, and offense, and pain from separation. Often sincere bewilderment is added to it: why, because of what? Impressionable, vulnerable young people can take very hard such situation, up to a depression. How to behave in similar cases?
Instruction
1. It is from outside easy to give advice. But after all, the guy to whom the girl changed needs to calm down and to consider everything "on the cold head". It is not necessary to look for at once after a gap meetings with the girl, to keep ringing to her, to fill up with messages, to make a claim or to ask to return. Only it will be worse.
2. When the sharpest emotions recede, the guy needs to try to understand for what reason the girl threw him. The gap would not occur just like that, out of the blue! Perhaps, it something offended her, without having noticed that. Perhaps the notorious not similarity of characters worked. Or the girl just found to herself other partner. In the first and second case it is still possible to correct, and in the third – it is even better not to try. Means, the girl not really appreciated the guy.
3. If there is no hope for renewal of relations, it is necessary to inspire in itself that it already happened, nothing to correct. Long strong experiences, anguish will only do harm to the young man, can embitter it, inspire hostility to all fair sex. And unless it is necessary for it? It is necessary to reconcile to what occurred, to accept it as an unpleasant, but useful lesson on the future.
4. It is better for guy to get rid of everything that directs at memories of this girl. To remove its photos from the pages on social networks, phone numbers, the e-mail addresses. It is better to remove the gifts received from it somewhere far away, from eyes down with.
5. It is necessary to avoid meetings with the ex-girlfriend in every possible way. It is not necessary to speak about her with friends, relatives. On this subject to the guy it is necessary politely, but resolutely to stop any talk.
6. The best derivation from burdensome thoughts, experiences – employment. The young man should give as much as possible himself full-time job, study, hobbies. Then he just will have no time and desire to remember constantly the former partner.
7. If there is an opportunity, it is better to leave for a while somewhere far away from places where everything reminds of the girl. New impressions will also help to distract from gloomy thoughts.
8. At last, nobody it cancelled the old wise rule "Like cures like". The former girl did not estimate the guy? It does not matter, another will appreciate. The young man should look narrowly at women only more attentively. Perhaps, his happiness absolutely is near, a stone's throw away. It is only necessary to release the past and to begin to live in the present.