Marriage by many men is perceived quite negatively. Unfreedom and obligations frighten males. Therefore it is no wonder what sometimes even the best men deliberate to marry.
"My girl spoils to me life why on such to marry?"
One of the most common causes for maintaining the status of the bachelor – unreasonable claims of the girlfriend. If she constantly demands something, gives the sea of a negative, saws it at the slightest pretext, even the most patient and inclined guy to compromises will decide not to connect the life with the similar woman.
Single friends can convince the man not to marry. The weak character or dependence on opinion of people can push the man to adoption of this decision.
One more good reason of unwillingness to marry - youth and as a result unavailability to take the responsibility. And youth in this case rather subjective criterion. Sometimes both in thirty five, and in forty years the man can consider himself too young for marriage. Similar men want to be acquired and calm down, but business is usually limited only to the first point. In a case with similar men their justification "to me too early to marry" smoothly turns in "me already too late to marry".
The question of finance takes the place of honor in the list of the reasons. The lack of stable financial position can lead to long-term promises to get married as soon as then. The marriage means further increase in family, and many responsible men are simply not ready to bring children until the financial position becomes stable.
If the man repeatedly reported that he is not going for you to marry, and it is very important to you to enter a legal marriage, do not spend on it time, you leave. It is unlikely these relations will lead you to an altar.
Men and their fears
By the way, the question of children is very important too. Very many men are simply not ready to similar responsibility. And business even not in restriction of their personal liberty. Very many men doubt that they can be good fathers. If the man expresses this fear, he needs to be overpersuaded. Usually from the doubting men good parents turn out. Unwillingness to become monogamous – the important reason for which men can change mind to marry. This very "honest" reason, many marry, and then change the spouses, meeting the desires. The man can sometimes decide not to marry, having come to a conclusion that near it not so the woman whom he will be able to love until the end of days. And sometimes some trifle that the man began to doubt the girlfriend or her feelings suffices.