Unfortunately, the love not always is happy and easy. Many people, having found this feeling, face a set of insuperable barriers, and not everyone from them finds forces to sustain everything and not to lose ability to love.
Examples of love contrary to
To love contrary to – means to love, despite everything, without looking on any difficulties and barriers. Each specific situation can have the features, but it is possible to allocate the most widespread examples of love contrary to.
For example, the girl and the guy passionately fell in love with each other at first sight, they got married, began to live happily, they had children. In several years of family life there is a terrible tragedy: the husband has an accident, forever becomes the disabled person chained to a carriage. Life of married couple changes in a root, now the woman performs functions of the head of the family, to it it is very heavy: physically and morally. Compassionate friends and relatives advise the woman to find to themselves other husband, but she cannot take this step, her family becomes only more strong and more solid every year.
What saves such family from destruction? The fact that despite all difficulties, the woman loves the husband also strongly, as before. Of course, someone can tell that it just grieves it to throw him. But on one pity any family long will not exist, something bigger for this purpose is necessary, namely – love. Bright manifestation of love contrary to can be observed and in case a family is started by the people chained to wheelchairs. Despite everything, they trust in love and can share this feeling with each other. Sometimes in such families children are born that once again proves their right for love contrary to everything. The unrequited love lasting for years is too feeling which cannot give in to arguments of cold and sensible mind. The person understands what so cannot be loved that it will not bring him anything, except sufferings. However, despite everything, he continues to have this feeling contrary to lack of reciprocal love, arguments of friends and acquaintances, contrary to own sufferings and mental anguish.
The love is how strong contrary to?
Durability of such love depends on the person having this feeling. Someone gives up already at the first difficulties, justifying the weakness with any reasons. In this case it is possible to assume that the love was not at all that the feeling did not pass serious check, tests. It often happens if the person got used to love another for something, for example, for his success, wealth, etc. But all these values it is passing and when other person loses what he was loved for, he loses also love. If the love for other person is not tied to his wealth, success, etc., then and in the most difficult life situations it will not disappear anywhere, and will only amplify, will be shown even more and will become a striking example of the fine feeling existing contrary to all misfortunes and adversities.