To make success at women three things are necessary: the first are money, the second are money, and the third are money …
(Ancient French proverb)
Of course, let's not be as vulgar as the French, however, you should not dump from the account and a proverb of the people which became skilled in the question interesting us … It is known that proverbs are born and die, and only the chosen proverbs endure centuries, for example those which help to understand a hard question that is necessary for the woman from the man.
Ideal male
Let's look at things really, in terms of, biology, to be exact, of zoology. What is the man and the woman? Having rejected any sentimental prejudices, and having looked at the biosphere of the earth really, it is possible to claim surely that it is a male and a female. What male is necessary to a female or what men are wanted to be seen a number of the woman – naturally, the strongest (in transfer to human - the most provided, reliable, and attractive) which can PROVIDE the best reproduction of a look, protection of posterity, and care for it in optimal conditions. What woman needs the drunk, the idler, the gambler and the bawler? Any. To speak, she can write, anything, letters to actors and singers, to cover all wall with their cute photos, to go to their concerts and to start up slezk, and will marry some podgy accountant or the manager with short wind. But, having the stable income, the well-groomed bank account developed over the years habits, the corresponding living space with car.
What is the modern woman?
The modern woman only in words is modern and absolutely self-sufficient. Each of them at heart as far as emancipated she to herself (and especially to the girlfriends), was not represented, dreams to be the gentle and weak, cozy and lukewarm hostess who near prince on white Volvo, will purr evenings sitting on a soft sofa in front of the favourite TV waiting for a fast issue. It follows from this that the question what man is necessary to the modern woman, in the root – is rhetorical.
Naturally, even under torture, the modern woman, smoking kalyanchik and contemptuously arguing on the become shallow muzhchinka which are unworthy even a look, will never agree with the above. But all this lies and pretense. Do not trust it, she does not even deceive herself that the woman wants from the man, it tries to be closed by it only from the temporary failures and when IT appears, she towards the girlfriends even will not look, and will only think of the pretty pigeon.
Strong women
One famous philosopher of the nineteenth century on a question what people he appreciates – strong or weak, answered that in the man he appreciates force, and in the woman – weakness. Difficultly to argue with it, he knew what he speaks about. But here one question, raises certain doubts. And in general, what is the strong woman what is meant it? The woman alone bringing up five children? The woman who endured a lot of grief and did not lower hands? Or something else? Descartes, at the time, told that the mankind would get rid of many troubles if, at least decided on a concept of terms. Whether it is possible to answer a question what man is necessary to the strong woman, without knowing that there is a strong woman?
Most likely, strong women are not at all because the nature, for the woman prepared destiny weak. Naturally, it does not concern a question of protection of posterity where any woman as the real mother, will give hundred points of odds to any man in protection of children and the center from newcomers. In it there is also its purpose given it from above by the nature or that who created this nature.