Women share with indignation with each other stories about how men scatter socks on the house, sweep away all products in the fridge, fall asleep in front of the TV, etc. But also women have habits which are pushing away men.
And if we demand from men of eradication of habits, then and to ourselves unpleasant to us have to impose the same requirements! Of what habits it is worth getting rid not to irritate darling?
Commander manners
Nothing so razdrayozhat the man as the zhenyoshchina trying zayonyat his place. KomanYodirskiy notes in a voice, a habit to challenge and criticize its deyyostviye and decisions can not only enrage any man, but also in general lead to break in relations.
Council. It is important to learn to be the real woman, the keeper of the world and rest of a home ready to play "the second violin" in a family tandem. Do you remember a statement that "the man - the head, and the woman - a neck"? Do not interfere with "head" to perform representational functions. Female wisdom (read: cunning), main weapon of the real woman.
To limit its freedom
If you do not allow it to watch football ("There are affairs more important!"), you preyopyatstvut to communication with friends ("We will go better to mother!") or you prevent to plunge the razyogovor into a plot of a favourite game, the husband will be indignant. He will apprehend it as a habit to limit its freedom.
Council. Not to become a pritesnitelyyonitsa in the opinion of the husband, try to plan the affairs so that he did not feel restrained. For example, postpone the prosyyoba about replacement of a bulb by that time when it does not go about the own business (reads, smoyotrit soccer, corresponds with the friend, etc.).
To look for all 100% only on holidays
Communicating with the bride prior to a wedding, young cheyolovek always sees the well-groomed and attractive person. And it is zametyono disappointed after the wedding, obnayoruzhiv that darling imeyot "presentation" tolyyoko by the time of an exit from the house. And as the most part of time the husband sees the wife in a doyomashny situation, its look in the stretched t-shirt, without make-up and with "carrion crows a nest" on the head both razdrazhayot it, and pushes away.
Council. To dress up for an ofiyos - it is good, but vazhyono to get a habit to nayoryazhatsya and at home for the husband. When it is waited for the house by a well-groomed and attractive zheyona, it will have less occasions to look towards nice soyotrudnitsa at work and proyosto at unfamiliar women.
To ache and complain
Even the most effective appearance gradually loses the attractiveness when her obyoladatelnitsa begins to ache, zhaloyovatsya constantly on life and to shed tears at the slightest pretext. At first the man is lost, then gets used and instead of sympathy begins to test a razdrayozheniye. In this situation he will prefer the obayayotelny, optimistic plain woman of eternally shedding tears and always to the dissatisfied beauty rather.
Council. Tears to achieve the, - favorite method of some women. But focus is in what over time the man ceases to reagiyorovat on it. We advise you to choose some other way of impact on the husband.