After 10-15 years of happy matrimonial life the beloved husband can be told almost anything. He will accept it. But when the relations are only entered, it is important to know what phrases do not need to be spoken to the man
1) You remind me the ex-boyfriend.
Never remind the young man of your last love relations. From it his love will become stronger not. It is better to reserve such talk for girlfriends. These subjects not only do not carry away men, but also cause a lot of negative emotions.
Why guys so negatively react to words in which the former young man is mentioned? The fact is that each man sees himself in the opinion of the girlfriend one and only. If its beloved often mentions a name being, so she not up to the end accepts the new relations. Girl really in love of anybody another except the elect cannot think.
Conclusion is simple: forget the words destroying the relations - never remember last love. An exception only one is it is possible to tell if the man himself personally asks about it. And in this situation it is necessary to think what to tell and what not to remember. And it is better to leave in general from a conversation, having told that the former beloved is not worthy such attention that to tell something about it.
2) Your friend is very beautiful, I want to get acquainted with him closer.
Such words will even stronger touch the man, than a talk about the former love. It is possible that the man will begin to be jealous the girl of everyone. It is worth to rememberIt is worth to remember that having once dropped this phrase, it is possible to say goodbye to the new relations forever. And all because as it was already told earlier, the young man wants to see himself only and irreplaceable in the girl's life. And she issues the enthusiastic speech about beauty of his friend. Whether it is silly? Therefore before to tell something, it is necessary to think then not to regret.
3) Your mother constantly is present at our life.
It is not necessary to speak so, men very much love and respect the mothers. Mother for them – the main person, she gave life and grew up. So was and will be always and it not to change. Therefore you should not be surprised that many men, having heard an unflattering comment on the mother, will get up on her party. It concerns even those cases when in fact mother is not right. Here even you should not spend time and to understand rash behavior of the guy. It is important to remember only that stating reproach to mother, the girl reproaches also the most young man. In any case, he perceives it so.
4) All men it is crazy about my beauty.
One more words destroying the relations. Never tell this phrase! It does not decorate the girl, and does in the opinion of the young man by the light-headed person. Any man will not agree to build the serious relations with the thoughtless beauty. Such words mean for him that competitors will always be near, and it will bother sooner or later. And then, this phrase outright deception because whatever was fine the girl, it cannot be pleasant to all men. At everyone the taste and an ideal of maiden beauty.
5) Would present to me better than a rose.
Darling bought as a gift lilies, and these flowers not really are pleasant to you? It is not necessary to offend the guy such remark. He tried, chose, bought also everything to make favourite pleasant, and it did not estimate. And in general, it is difficult for stronger sex to understand why to be spent for some there flowers which in a week will wither and them it is necessary to throw out. Therefore remember if there is a wish to be fastidious, then it is better to do it in other occasion, and that it is possible to be left absolutely without flowers next time.
6) Tell what jacket to me to choose?
You should not take the man in shop behind purchase of the next jacket or pairs of shoes. And "what jacket to choose phrases?" or "what dress to me goes more?" in general it is better not to use more than two times as they just will begin to irritate the man. Men do not like to go on boutiques as think more of how to provide the family. Moreover, the elect can be incompetent in principle in new fashion trends therefore to keep up the conversation about style and color it will be hard for it. Unless the girl will be able professionally to talk about soccer (of course, there are also exceptions to the rules)? Therefore it is better to walk on shops and to discuss new collections with girlfriends, and you should not attract the young man to hours-long campaigns.
But if the guy the dandy and the dandy, likes to put on beautifully and long is late in any given boutique, then it it is possible and it is even necessary to take to do shopping new jackets.
7) Darling, you love me?
Declaration of love for the young man – very serious step for which it is necessary to ripen. If through any time the guy did not tell these important and fine three words, then it is not necessary to hurry him - everything is good in its season (of course, within limits). The question "whether you love me?" it is possible just to nonplus the young man. And if suddenly the girl hears affirmative answer on her question whether then he will be sincere? Therefore it is better to wait and not to push the man to make a declaration of love ahead of time. He will define when and how to tell about the love.
Knowing what female phrases can spoil the relations, it is possible to avoid many mistakes and to get to fall in love the man before memory loss. Let him admire your wisdom, but does not try to escape from nonsense and rash words.