Desire of the guy to be pleasant to the girl on an appointment is quite explainable. Depends on your behavior whether there will be this meeting of the first and the last or will be the cause to meet once again. Therefore it is so important to know – that it is interesting to girls?
Self-confidence
Any girl intuitively feels whether the man is confident in himself. If he stammers when she asks it a question, at it the voice shivers or it constantly reddens – the girl it, undoubtedly, it is pleasant and flatters, but at the same time she begins to consider the man uncertain in own forces. Therefore you keep surely and quietly. Answer her questions with an equal voice, smile and you joke – only within decency. You monitor the gestures and a pose. The closed pose and the crossed hands will also show that you feel some discomfort and constraint.
Intellectual besedydevushka attract a "clever" talk. The image of the joker and collector of jokes, of course, attracts. But the girl wants to talk not only about weather and to listen to a couple of jokes … She wants to discuss policy, to learn your opinion on global warming and disappearing animals. Do not take in head to react sarcastically to a question of your relation to an art house and to banter at the girl (especially if she is a blonde). Your humour on a subject "unless it can be interesting to the woman?" it is not appropriate here at all.
Your lifestyle and social statusnt, not all are concerned by money and prospects of the potential partner. The girl just wants to know that you are what you see the future. Therefore questions on work, the diploma with honors and desire binesmeny to become quite explainable – she does not look in your purse, she just tries to find out your living position. Unless there is a wish to connect the life with the idler and the eternal dreamer who has no plans for the future? Such man will not be able to provide family and to protect darling from vital scrapes. If you tell that work brings you only joy, and you plan to implement all the plans in the near future, the girl will be fascinated.