The modern zhenshchiina appears much has to: to the husband, children, society. From it constantly it is required to be beautiful, young, healthy, erudite. But whether the burden also consists in it just to be a modern woman and courageous to cope with it.
The woman at many is associated with a riddle. Women were idolized by both poets, and ordinary men. About female versatility there are legends, and this fact is indisputable and does not demand either confirmation, or a denial.
However that after all it modern woman? What means to the woman today to be a woman, in conditions when huge responsibility is conferred on her, the heap of duties, at the same time duties of the keeper of the center, his defender is imposed by society, still also remain behind it.
What is the burden of the modern woman
The woman to be not just hard today, and it is very daunting. The modern woman significantly differs from the predecessors, for example, of the beginning or the middle of the 20th century. Today, according to psychologists, women forgot to love. The cause is there is a huge speed in which daily there are ladies of our days. Behind daily cares the condition of fullness is lost. This state when inside everything is overflowed with love, kindness and openness to the world. It is the perennial, self-replenished spring which drenches with a fountain of bright splashes around all people around.
What prevents the modern woman to remain the same source, the center of the universe? The answer is banal: work, career, aspiration and need to compete with men. Women learned to be closed from pain and offense which unintentionally or intentionally surrounding representatives of a strong half of mankind can put them. As a result – they are completely closed also for love.
Everything, there is no source – and heart of the woman grows coarse, she becomes tougher. And society, in turn, applauds, encourages, saying that all is good, and it is necessary.
Consequences of this processThe inability to love generates unwillingness of women to enter official marriage and the informal relations too. Why to the modern woman to seek to be with the man if she understands that she can independently earn to herself a living, it has housing and other material benefits. The man today, in the 21st century, lost a role of the getter, his function of authority on family is doubtful.
The modern woman just often has no respect for men. The loneliness results of it. And the burden of the modern woman also consists in it.
The Israeli medical portal gives results of a research which demonstrate that women not really seek to have sex, especially with one man. They simply do not need it because they easily have relations with different men, and it is pleasant to them. Sex in marriage is perceived as one of duties, for example, as washing, ironing, cleaning and cooking. And the modern developed independent lady just also seeks to leave from these duties which bothered and imposed by society for centuries. Promotes it as well abundance of fast food, semi-finished products, a huge number of cafe and restaurants. To prepare there is no need any more - rather simply to dial number delivery of pizza or to run in supermarket near the house.
The modern woman a lot of time lives in the Internet – so to her more simply. Virtual communication, and is possible, and sex replace with her real men, in the long term – actually marriage. She has any more no desire to give birth and raise children and if it also is, then is often postponed for the period in 30, 40 years. The benefit modern medicine is at the sufficient level, and society repeats what about health should be cared and worried.
The burden of the modern woman is also that she should resolve all issues often independently, without experience of last generations. Emancipation led to the fact that the woman does not consider opinion of anybody, even own parents.
On the one hand, technologies make the woman's life easier, but, maybe, it is the seeming simplicity as instead of bothered to physical activity which women in more than the volume were forced to carry out earlier (routine homework means), today ladies are morally disarmed. And it too burden of the modern woman.
Always be on the ballSociety imposes strict requirements to appearance of the modern woman. And it too its burden. Covers of fashionable magazines literally shout that it is necessary to look for 100%: to be well-groomed, with the fine-molded tightened figure, a young face, an ideal hairstyle. The lady spends that time which could be spent for filling own soul with light and heat for leaving, infinite beauty shops, procedures. She is simply obliged to be forever young.
And whether here from it the woman becomes happier, a controversial issue. Most likely, everyone for herself solves it independently.
Progress – it is simply excellent, nobody will argue with it. But the world becomes more technologically, and together with the external seeming simplification in the woman's life imperceptibly there is a loss and substitution of moral foundations. Thus, the woman's burden just also is in learning to maneuvre in the circumstances, to live fully, but not to lose the female essence.