If the person does not love himself, at him it will never turn out to get with someone the relations. Without the main basis in the form of respect and love it is impossible to construct trust.
When someone from the company begins to be proud and to be proud immensely of himself or the property, from it friends gradually will begin to turn away. In the beginning his companions will begin to influence it and to influence in every possible way, but such method not always helps. The relations with friends can forever be lost, relatives can suffer long time.
When the quarrel, contention and misunderstanding enter the human house, in it surely there is no positive power, the cosiness falls. Between spouses such relations develop usually into silence. And then as a result in a divorce. In the Bible it is told that pride kills any person.
Such relations were constructed between David and Absalom when the last returned to the house of the father. David allowed the son to come to the palace and to live there, but was too proud to start talking to the stumbled son. And there lived Absalom near the father, with him without communicating in any way. The great tsar was fenced off from the son, having locked the heart and feelings. As a result the son died, in it there is also a certain share of fault of his father.
It is always necessary to watch at a conversation with relatives for by the own words because the thrown offensive word can generate an abyss between relatives and friends.
Quite often the people who are proud of themselves and the situation in society, actually are coward and envious. They only appearance show all the pathos, and in fact is nothing.
When in communication the disgust for the interlocutor is shown, in it the human arrogance is also shown.
First of all, with someone the person should look for the break in relations reason in himself and to suppress pride on a root. The address to the Lord will help with it.
It is necessary to subdue in itself the bad thoughts directed to other people. To be necessary to remember humility, it will help to counterbalance the attitude towards itself, to the world around and acts in particular.
It is also necessary to say constantly prayers, they will help to concern people more simply. They also contain humility, mildness. Prayers help to be at proper words for communication with other people.