The relations can be gentle and trembling, beautiful and qualitative. But it does not say at all that the relations are serious. Even adult couples can be very harmonious, but at the same time there is no long-term joint life in their plans for the future.
In the serious relations both partners plan the long term. It becomes voluntarily and firmly. Promises and obligations of both parties joint serious plans for the future do not change, made. Both the man, and the woman willingly put all resources in the serious relations and are not afraid that investments will be vain.
Signs of the serious relations
The first and most important sign of gravity of the relations is that both partners completely exclude a possibility of emergence in their life someone another instead of the present elect. "Spare" options do not miscalculate, and all available admirers or fans receive rather rigid refusal.
In the serious relations the partners together observe the picture of the possible future. Both approximately equally represent what have to develop their today's communication into. The prospect of the future heats couple, plans are the first joint creation of the man and woman. The determination to deal with global problems, like purchase of the car and housing, the child's birth, also speaks about gravity of intentions of both partners. The serious relations are always calculation on family where become core values not attention, compliments and expensive gifts, and health, the child, reputation and an opportunity to be implemented.
What is really serious relations?
Pregnancy, stamp in the passport and the general economy is not indicators yet that the relations are rather serious. Really serious relations the partners for a second do not doubt that they will live together until the end of life. Couple understands the real values, lives in harmony with the nature, the man and the woman do not interfere with development of each other. Serious young people do not look continuously at each other, wishing to become impregnated with love as much as possible. Such people hold hands and look in one direction, knowing that ahead the future, but is near – the reliable and loved one. It turns out, the serious relations are such relations when two loving persons form a single whole. Together they are capable of a lot of things, to them nothing is terrible. They develop, but do not chase the power and prestige. They give each other the love, but do not demand from each other additional courtesies. Unfortunately, statistics of stains says that the gravity in modern marriages is not enough. What to tell about the unregistered relations. It is important to remember that the serious relations independently will appear where the love, pure feelings and mutual respect reigns.